What Do I Do
So i cheated on my wife before we got married with 8 other people. I only had sex with 3 of these people the others i just fooled around with. she doesnt believe in divorce. i feel like if i tell her she will be heart broken for the rest of our lives, but if i dont i will have this deep wound on my heart. I would sacrafice that if i knew it was the right thing to do. we have been married for 1 year and i have not cheated on her since we got married. i also have just became religous and am christian and i think that this is while i feel so bad. i have always felt that if she didnt find out it wouldnt hurt her but i feel like ive hurt her whether i tell her or not. please help.