Cheated On

I feel so stupid.  I was so in love with this girl, and I found out a few weeks ago that she had been cheating on me the entire 3 years that we were dating.  I finally started snooping through her text messages when she would leave the room to go to the bathroom or something; and, finally, I made sure to catch her in the act.  It was the most painful thing I've ever had to see.  I broke up with her, but that doesnt do anything to make me feel any less stupid...

AdamMiller724 AdamMiller724
22-25, M
2 Responses Feb 18, 2009

The exact same think happened to me but it was 15 years together and 2 kids later.dont feel stupid you weren't in the wrong she is the one with the problem. It's been 4 months since my ex dumped me for the guy she was sleeping with and still is pretty Raw . It has got a little better over time, Gud days and bad what we need to do is get them out of our heads and move on / should be easyer for you as u don't have kids .keep your head up and we may find our true loves we deserve.i don't think I believe in carma but if it is out there we will be ok

Don't feel stupid. You did nothing wrong. The fact that you trusted her just makes you a good person. She abused your trust. You broke up with her. She is the one with problems.