I am the baby mama. I've recently become friends with my ex's (baby's father) girlfriend. It has been quite a ride for her and I over the past few years. It tooks some time and growth to be able to see eye to eye. We were similar to many stories on here from what I've seen. We recently talked it out and came to terms with the fact that neither of us could handle this drama much longer. Since then and some positive encounters since our initial talk, we've had a chance to actually start to know eachother. We've found that we misjudged a lot of eachother's qualities and motives. We also found that we have a lot of similarities between us. I for one, couldn't be happier about our experience and our new found understanding. I found that I was wrong, about a lot, and she is the friend that I didn't even realize I've been wanting for some time. Our story may be similar, but is unlike any other experience, it may not be as simple for some. I hope this posts will encourage someone to see past your own feelings and open your mind to the possibility of no more drama! Sometimes you have to give a little to get a little. If understanding and peace is what you want, you may need to give some of that to receive it.