She Shouldnt Even Be A Mother!!!!!

I have been with my husband for over 2 years now. When we met I didnt know that he had 2 daughters.
Ofcourse that wouldnt change my mind about how I felt about him.
If anything it made me love him more because he's such a great father. I fell in love with his 2 daughters.
They're hilarious and beautiful. All the wonderful things from him wrapped up into little blonde packages.
I understand that most stepmothers do not feel the same way I do or they just dont let themselves.
Time went by and his Ex...The girls mother, Started to start stuff for no reason. Saying things about me to the girls...Calling my husband all the time...
And she even got married...And still was obsessed with him. They were never married and their relationship was one big fight and her cheating him him with many different men, While he stayed home with the kids. She would take off for months at a time without telling him or her kids where she was or even caring about what wen on with them.
My husband didnt leave her. Not because he wanted to be with her but because, in his mind it was the right thing to do for his daughters.
When I met my husband we had the girls at our apartment everyday. She maybe saw them for  couple of hours a day and when we tried to drop them off she would make up excuses as to why she couldnt have them there.
So the girls and I got attached to eachother. They didn't have a mother figure in this woman. She wanted to be a mother when someone else was in the picture. And even then not until she realized how serious my husband and I were for eachother. She started causing more issues. Telling the girls to call their father and me names. Ofcourse they're to young to understand what those words mean. The girls started calling me Mommy way before my husband and I even got married. Ofcourse we corrected them..But honestly...They do not feel loved by this woman. And when we asked them not to call me that it made them so sad...Finally we asked them what they wanted to call me, They said Mommy, because I am their mommy. They're extrememly smart for their age, and explained that they understood that she was their "mother" But that they felt that I was their Mommy. And I'm not going to lie...It was the best feeling ever! To have these little things call me mommy and understand that I loved them beyond anything in the world and to have them love me that way back. Ofcourse this didnt sit well with their mother. and I tried to be respectful of that...I even tried being friends with her. But she's not over my husband and she's married...She makes the girls feel terrible about everything. their entire lives they have known that their mother has loved their older sister more and even at such a young tender age they realize that she makes them feel like a burden and accessory to her life. She had a baby with her new husband and thats when things got worse. the girls more than just every now and then now were telling us taht she didnt love them..I understand not getting the affection they needed because she was pregnant, but when you have children they do not just disappear because you have another one. Like I said they were with us everyday! She kept digging at my husband for money but everytime he gave her money for the "girls"
she would spend it on things for herself...She even used the money he gave her for new clothes for the girls to go to a concert...The girls started school with old raggy clothes, until we took them out ourselves and bought them clothes.
The real issues started when my husband i claimed the girls on our taxes...We had them everyday and had every right to do so...we took the girls to the zoo for a weekend and bought them new toys,school supplies and clothes...She wanted to buy herself a new car....So she took the girls away from my and my husband on the day that she was supposed to have them for a little while and didnt bring them to school for us to pick them up...My husband and I were not only livid but extremely hurt that "OUR" daughters were being kept from us! She decided to take him to court to take away almost all of his visitation because of money. The girls begged her everyday to let them come hom to me and thei dad...But she said not until he gave her money....But money for what? We had them. We were paying for everything. She barely saw them for more than a couple hours a day if they were lucky.
We contatced the police who told us they would take care of it and that she couldmnt do that because they were mainly with us. And told us to get a court order. So we went to court and we got 50/50 legal and physical custody. She now is the primary residence and the girls are so depressed and sad all the time...It's difficult to watch them suffer like this because she is so money hungry....She doenst have insurance for them but she does have it for her older daughter and her new baby...The girls beg us to not make them go everytime they have to leave with her. She is self centered and crazy.
When i was trying to be friends with her all she wanted to talk about was my husband...making it obvious that she is no where near over him. She cares only about herself. and i cannot wait for OUR daughters to be home and safe in our arms for good. She has no right to even try to pretend that she is their "Mommy" yes she carried them for 9 months. But its takes longer than 9 months to make a mommy. I'm there when they have nightmares and I clean up the throw up when they're sick! I read bedtime stories to them and teach them morals and life lessons. i guide them. She calls them skanky...tells them she doenst have time to play with them. or do homework with them...She's to busy...busy doing what? Sitting on her *** and watching TV. Our daughters deserve better than that. the y deserve the love and care they want and need. they want to be with us...And god willing they will be soon enough. This woman has no right to be a mother...When you're a mom all that should matter is your kids...they come first...i might not have been there their entire lives...but im here now and I have spent more time with them in the short time that i have been in their lives and bonded with them more than she has in their entire exsistence. it's sad....So for all the mothers out there that are giving stepmother a bad name becaus ethey didnt carry the kids in their bellys...Well maybe if you took the time to be a mother the kids wouldnt need a mother figure else where.
I love my daughters with everything that i am...and even though i didnt not give birth to them...they are MY daughters. blood only goes so far...and if this is what blood can do then maybe im happy that it's this way and not any other. i dont care how god brought them to me, they're with me now and away from that thing that calls itself a mother. it's easy to spread your legs and get pregnant but you have their entire lives to think about being a mother and she failed.  will not let her hurt my girls anymore. She's causes problems for us and for them...and she doesnt deserve their love. nor do they want to give it to her. She lost that chance. they have smartened up and see right through her and her lies. But it's sad that it had to happen to them when they're so young...I wish i would have given birth to them...so that they wouldnt have to live with such a disappoint as a birth mother...