I Have LearnedHello All,
I have learned, the best way to deal with baby mama drama, or baby daddy drama is not too. The best thing you can do is support, love and trust your signifigant other. I feel as though your heart will tell you if something is not right.
Since being involved with my honey, I have had to learn to humble myself as wll as how to be completely open to a new way of thinking.
He has two an ex wife and a special baby mother. I see that it is not my place to dictate how he deals with them, and over time and conversations I have learned the best thing to do is allow him to be an adult and handle what ever he needs too.
The children will not be little forever, and the bonds that are formed can be either positive or negative. I want the bonds to be postive, I want my influece to be one of support and trust.
There are times/days when this is not as easy as it sounds, but I have to ground myself and get my mind right when ever I am feeling less than secure.
I hope my words help you as well.
Have a good day!