Wish My Boyfriend'S Baby Mama Didn'T Hate MeI have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We have been on and off for two of those years, but have been together for the past year solidly. He has a son who is a year and half && is the cutest thing ever. The son's mother-- not so cute.. This whole thing started around two years ago when my boyfriend told me he was having a child. We had talked for hours about this whole situation. His son's mother was a one night stand and was nothing else than that. They had been talking about the whole situation and she decided she was going to keep their child whether he was there or not. When he told me, all I could think is "I'm sixteen, I don't think I can handle this," but me I love my boyfriend with all my heart, for him I would do anything, including having to deal with baby mama drama. As he told me he was having a child, I told him that I love him and that I would be here for him no matter what. No matter what-- was actually not no matter what. I had told him that he was either going to be in his son's life or he wasn't going to have me in his life. He told me was going to be there. His baby mama's pregnancy was not bad at all. But then she went into labor. She had text my boyfriend's phone. This in mind he had to be around Wi-Fi to get his messages, which we were not. She had text him saying she was in labor. Her Mother and she hates my boyfriend. They tell him that he's no good, that he's a dead beat, that his son doesn't need him because he has his mother's boyfriend. My boyfriend can only take so much of their drama before he can't take it anymore. One day his baby mama will let him see his son, they next she'll tell him she hates him and that their son doesn't need a dead beat like him in his life. She doesn't see him being all sad and depressed by not getting to see his son. She calls me the most harsh names, such as ****, hoe, etc. When she has never met me. She was so dead set about me never meeting either of them. One day, I had went to go and pick my boyfriend up form watching their son, his baby mama's mom let me meet him. He had told her I had met him. We were staying together and she had called him and told him that she was coming to get him to watch their son. He said I'm with my girlfriend.. She told him to tell me to go home. He said no we're staying together that night. And once again she goes you need to have your priorities straight you have a son, he's your main priority. I completely understand and I told him I would go home. But he said no. She asked why he would watch other people's kids but not watch his own. He said because they let me bring my girlfriend with. She said that she didn't want me around him because she didn't want him to get use to me and then us not work out. Once again I understand that completely. She thinks I want to take her spot, but I don't. I just want my boyfriend to be able to be with me and his son at the same time. His two important people is his life together in the same room instead of him with me for a couple hours and his son a couple. I have tried to talk to this girl, but she just isn't having it. I want to let her know I don't want to take her place as their son's mother, but i want her to no that I want to get to know them too, they're just as big of a part of my boyfriend's life as I am. I want her to get a hold of me if she needs something, or some one to talk to. I don't want to hate her, but everyday I have to put up with this, I get more and more tired of it.
So I guess, should just wait for her to come and around and hope one day that she will or just give it up?.
will she ever stop hating me?.
I'm just lost on this whole situation..
mys2013 18-21 3 Responses 0 Jan 24, 2013