I Hate Baby Mama Drama

I'm Just Fed Up With Bull- Crap

By: lisahill

Written on January 6th, 2009

I just be glad when the kids are grown and don't have to worry about them Baby Mama problems because on the real it's just another way of the baby mama wanting the the man back in her live and a excuse to see them. I'm just fed up with the bull-****. I just one woman that is just plain fed up with the *******. I can't wait till those daYS COME WHEN THEY ARE 18 BECAUSE THAT will be the end of those baby mama's I hope somebody can understand what I'm going throught if you know what I mean.

By: lisahill

Age: 31-35 , Female

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ShyButCreativeSexyGuy

Having researched, it's an all too common problem in today's world, especially in cultures where a girl becomes a woman at 13
& where so many thousands each year are kidnapped & trafficked for slavery exploitation, so it needs the dispassionate scientific approach to bring it into the open, yes?
& warrants public posting, to help others who EP search the subject

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Sep 17, 2012
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lovelyniki

I understand what you are going through! I canʻt wait till the kids are grown up too, so we can get rid of these hoes of baby mama drama! stay strong sis, and remember that we have a strong support group on here and let us know more about your story!

Aug 30, 2012
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Jasmiine

I have two and am pregnany I feel what your saying more then you know. it is hard!

Jun 30, 2012
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maneater2012

Gosh I may be the only women alive that actually enjoys baby mamma drama. Maybe its because I never let her get to me, all her stupid desperate attempts to control my husband always back fire on her. In the beginning when BM was still pregnant & me and my DH were only dating at the time, I started to show her who was boss, & showed her that baby mamma drama & pity parties would not fly with me. She really thought in her stupid little brain that her & the baby came first & that I would always be at the bottom of the list. But she was sadly mistaken when she realized that me & her son were all that mattered to my now husband. And that her & my husband will not be raising their son together, but instead on her days she parents by herself & on our days my husband & I do the parenting. My advice to anybody with baby mamma drama, is never let BM push you to the side and make you feel like the outsider, instead team up with your husband, boyfriend, or whatever you want to call him & push her pathetic lonely self to the side where she belongs.

Well I got BM so trained now its kind of boring, I enjoy it when she acts up or tries to pull a stunt on us cause I get to exercise my inner btcih:-)

Jun 26, 2012
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- lovelyniki
  you are amazing! I love your attitude I have cut and pasted this comment and saved it on my desktop to constatnly read and confine myself in the attitude which you poses. It is so true what you are saying, I wish one day i will post things like "I am kind of bored i enjoyed her acting up! " you are too funny. Thanks for your comment it made my day to the fullest!
  
  Aug 30, 2012
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- jazzlos73
  Thats what you have to do. My mam bbyma has done some of everythinggg lol & the ***** married & she lying&braggn bout fuckn my dude & said she #1 & calld my daughter a lil *****
  
  Oct 31, 2012
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macomaco2

OMG!!! Seems like everyone is going thru this baby mama drama nonsense!!!!!! JEEEZZZZZ!!! I swear they won't let up or let us breathe<<< I'm better than all this **** though!!!

Jun 13, 2012
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slimz101

sigh finally people i can relate to. i'm fed up of this baby mamma she is making my relationship a living hell. i'm also his baby mamma though she is his first i'm certain we are in love. this man cried for me he is so stressed with her i had to let him go because i'm unhappy i hope he resolves this nonsense and we can progress with out lives. i love him so much

Jun 6, 2012
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- jazzlos73
  You should not let her get to you, thats what she want TRUST I know..just ride it out, he needs your support :)
  
  Oct 31, 2012
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angelkey75

I get it, lets have something to drink hahaha~ I am sipping on champagne. Join me?

Apr 26, 2012
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princess2087

I FEEL U ON THAT TOTALLY THEY ARE SO INSANE &CHILDISH!!!! NEED A LOT OF GROWIN UP TO DO!!!! &THEY ARE INSECURE &JEALOUSSS!!!

Apr 11, 2012
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jazy24

why people come up with all types of sprays and have never come up with a ***** BE GONE one!?

Mar 6, 2012
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SICKOFTHISBITCH

TRUST I HAVE COUNTED I WILL BE 45 BY THE TIME MY FIANCE'S LAST CHILD WILL BE 18 IT'S LIKE DOING TIME

Oct 21, 2011
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QUEENJ08

I HATE MY BF BABYMAMA..WE HAVE A SON TOGETHER AND SHE HATE THAT ..WE LIVE TOGETHER HE IS GREAT WTH MY SON...SHE CALLS EVERYDAY AND BLAMES ME FOR WHY HE NOT TAKING CARE OF THEIR SON..SHE CALLS MY SON UGLY AND SHE WISHES I AND ALL HIS FAMILY WILL DIE..WE GOT INTO A FIGHT OUNCE BECAUSE SHE KEPT STALKING ME ON FACEBOOK AND MYSPA CE.I WISH I WAS THE ONLY WOMAN IN MY SONS FARTHER LIFE..HE DOESN'T UNDERSTAND HOW HARD IT IS FOR ME..TO DEAL WITH HER AND THE THINGS SHE SAYS...SHE IS CRAZY

Jun 15, 2011
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QUEENJ08

I HATE MY BF BABYMAMA..WE HAVE A SON TOGETHER AND SHE HATE THAT ..WE LIVE TOGETHER HE IS GREAT WTH MY SON...SHE CALLS EVERYDAY AND BLAMES ME FOR WHY HE NOT TAKING CARE OF THEIR SON..SHE CALLS MY SON UGLY AND SHE WISHES I AND ALL HIS FAMILY WILL DIE..WE GOT INTO A FIGHT OUNCE BECAUSE SHE KEPT STALKING ME ON FACEBOOK AND MYSPA CE.I WISH I WAS THE ONLY WOMAN IN MY SONS FARTHER LIFE..HE DOESN'T UNDERSTAND HOW HARD IT IS FOR ME..TO DEAL WITH HER AND THE THINGS SHE SAYS...SHE IS CRAZY

Jun 15, 2011
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Desdamona

When they finally leave home, it gets pretty lonely. Believe me. Forget about the bs that the adults in their lives are creating. Just appreciate your kids while they still need you.

Apr 5, 2011
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colirrell

MY BOYFRIENDS BABY MOMMA WILL DO ANYTHING SO THAT SHE CAN SEE HIM, OR COME TO OUR JOB AND MAKE IT LOOK LIKE THEY ARE A HAPPY FAMILY. SHE WOULD BRING THE KIDS UP THE OUR JOB FOR DINNER, AND SIT TOGETHER AND HAVE DINNER WITH THE KIDS, SO THAT EVERYONE COULD SEE THEM AND THINK THEY WERE HAPPY AND TOGETHER. SHE MAKES HIM GO AND GET THE KIDS AND HER HOUSE AND IT SEEMS LIKE SHE MAKES IT SO HE HAS TO STAY THERE. SHE DOESN'T GET THE KIDS READY SO THAT HE HAS TO BE THERE LONG ENOUGH TO GET THE KIDS READY TO GO . CONSTANTLY CALLING HIS PHONE, CONSTANT TEXTS ABOUT STUPID ****. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO I'M AT WITS END.

Mar 17, 2011
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CiK1

Omg there are plenty of people dealing with the same situation. My boyfriends baby mama is crazy she would lie and say I was sending her ugly messages when I wasn't and she would try to say he couldn't see his son if I'm there and all kinds of crap. Recently she and I got into a fist fight I beat that *** and she ain't been bothering us ever since! I hate that it came to that because it made me look bad but it was bound to happen. She is very very jealous she says she has a bf and is over my bf but was still doing sneaky things to try and get attention frm my boyfriend she is crazy and she doesn't understand he doesn't want her but I guess she see that its not working

Feb 15, 2011
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sesom

I hate my baby mama.... She is always using my daughter to get what she wants.... She always have excuses on why she cant help me with the bills. However, when tax time come, she wants to claim the baby and not pay any bills that was spent doing the year! last night she threatend to take my daughter away from me. She screams and curses at me in front of our daughter. I want to kick her out of my apartment, but I am scared that I will lose my daughter. Any advice?

Jan 11, 2011
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Curl77

I got news for you... your baby mama drama will not end when they turn 18. When that time comes, and they become "cut-off" per say, the phone calls about the daddy not caring... oh and better yet, when the grandkids come, will always be the same way.

I have completely cut off my fiance's baby mama and it bothers her so much, its hysterical. She has and continues to this day, to lie about everything. Even making up stories that the kids say about us. The woman is insane. She does not work (all of the kids are in school), she's got 3 baby daddys that pay her support, she's on wellfare, medicade and disability... She is so paid its rediculous! She continues to call my fiances family, shows up at his family functions, shows up at my house last Christmas asking everyone to come outside to say hello to her!

My guess that BMD will never end; its how you deal with it on your end and supporting the kids through their crazy-mother's emotional disfunctionality that will help you in the end for the most positive outcome. Be the better person. Good Luck!

Jul 11, 2010
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tt1977

i have been with my bf 15 months. he has 2 baby momma's and both of them blame me for him not wanting them. his sons are 17months and 13 months. so they were pregnant at the same time. and they keep his sons from him. one of them only lets him see his son if she is with them. and they get online and create myspace pages and facebook pages just to talk **** to me. so i completely understand how this goes

Mar 30, 2010
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- princess2087
  HOW CHILDISH IS THAT KEEP DOIN U THE WANT TO MESS UP YALL RLSHIP!!
  
  Apr 11, 2012
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dabosslady

Ms lady let me congratulate u on being a boss lady control your house let her make herself small. they mental that's all I know my husbands is but I too shuts sh*t down quick. I got 8 more years and if she keep it up i'll end it for her(if not before then) LOL

STAY BOSSY XOXO

Nov 16, 2009
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lisahill

Hell I don't know if it's over or not but I know 1 thing she will be grown but you never know she might still keep up trouble but like I said I'm not the one 2 play with I will shut you *** down in a heart beat because I'm the grownest one here.

Jun 30, 2009
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missquietriot

Does it really ever end? Honestly, I dated a few men with children (never again) and I honestly think there are some women who use their children to bait and control their kids father. I will no longer be a fool and date anyone with kids ever again! Because even 18 years, hell, even one year...is too much drama for me!!

Jun 30, 2009
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- tkioblu
  No it doesn't end!! If he/she doesn't set the boundaries for the ex it will continue even beyond 18. I have simply chosen NOT to date men with young children because it's way too stressful.
  
  Feb 14, 2012
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- princess2087
  YES THEY DO USE THEIR KIDS FOR BAIT THATS SO SAD!!!
  
  Apr 11, 2012
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lisahill

Well thanks for the comment and that nexy year my stepdaughter will be 18 so believe it girl that I GOT THE DATE AND TIME COUNTING DOWN SO 2010 WILL BE HERE THIS TIME NEXT YEAR I'M ALL GOOD.

Jun 15, 2009
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AydensMommyo

i understand..unfortuantely i have 18 years tell the kids are that old lol but my hubbys babymama is sooo crazy its ridiculous im trying to hold bak so far to not create even worse drama but im close to snapping she needs to move on..baby mama drama is ridiculous

Jun 15, 2009
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AydensMommyo

i understand..unfortuantely i have 18 years tell the kids are that old lol but my hubbys babymama is sooo crazy its ridiculous im trying to hold bak so far to not create even worse drama but im close to snapping she needs to move on..baby mama drama is ridiculous

Jun 15, 2009
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