I hate to be an elitist, but I really can't help detesting lousy grammer. (Well, okay, maybe I can, but I choose not to.) To be sure, it definitely doesn't have to be perfect, but for the most part, we've all had enough grammer in elementary school to at least communicate effectively. Yet many people choose to forget or ignore it. I guess I feel that I took the time to learn it, and so should everyone else.