I hate the fact that I'm a second wife, seems like my husband has done everything that I want to do when he was married to his first wife. He reaction to most things are, " Been there, done that."
sheherme83 sheherme83
31-35, F
4 Responses Aug 18, 2014

My husband says the same thing drives me nuts! It may be been there done that kind of a thing. However he hasn't been there and done that with you, which makes it a completely different experience. I hope you can get him to see that!

I can relate to your issue. My husband traveled the world with his first wife and lived abroad with her. Traveling is not a priority to him. It is extremely disappointing.

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He needs to change his attitude or he will lose you. It's not fair to you. He can't change the past but he can make things happen with you and be genuinely excited about them. They just don't get it...