I too am the victim of being second or should I say third wife? The second wife is not really a problem anymore but the first is always making sure she talks to my husband all the time. She is remarried for almost 12 years now but still uses my husband for whatever she wants. She calls him and says I just thought you would want to support your daughter whenever she has something she has going on. She has done this forever. She was really into beauty pageants and it was more she than the daughter. But she used my husbands guilt for her own satisfaction.
I am so tired of putting up with her and the daughter who is now 19 and uses her dad's guilt anytime she wants something.
Anyone been there done that?