Somebody help me and give me some advice.. I have an income of middle class... My boyfriend of three years is laid off as usual in winter months. We have five children between two of us .. Two his three mine. I'm getting super frustrated because my kids (3) do everything wrong and his are saints... I'm the one making all the $ and I'm the one supposed to pay for his two and mine ... I'm sorry I could go on and on and on but I truly don't get it!!!! I get child support for two and my lil girls father passed away so I am alone with her....... Someone please give me some advice cause I really care about this man
abbynick abbynick
3 Responses Jan 23, 2013

I think you should both talk about ways to help each other. you also talk to him about getting a parttime during the winter. instead of him critizing you parenting he should help you.

YOUR kids have to come first with you. End of story

I'm not sure what you mean by your children do everything wrong, and his our perfect. Do you mean yours tend to get into to stuff all the time and his do not, or do you mean he treats your children differently then his own children?

Also do you like his children as people?