I Hate It

i hate being lied to because it hurts me when i have to find out somthing that you should have found out from anyone from someone else and i dont like lying so why would i do it. im not saying that i havent lied. its just that being lied to isnt a good thing. now unless there keeping back the truth for a suprise now thats another story. so for all those who lie stop lying because you'll get addicted to it and you wont be able to stop and trust me you wont want to keep lying because lying can get you into more trouble than you think.
AnikiMomo AnikiMomo
18-21
5 Responses May 8, 2007

My question would be ...or thoughts for you to think about is:<br />
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If you "know" for sure he's a liar, then why are you continuing to live with it/him and his lies?<br />
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One cannot change anyone else, nor can they make them be what they want or who they<br />
wish they were.<br />
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He is what he is, just as much as you are who you are.<br />
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Either the two of you will get along with each being who you are, or not. That's what it's<br />
all about, finding and enhancing each other with whom you individually are, not clashing<br />
because you're not of the same - and running in circles trying to change the other, or wish<br />
they were different. They are who they are. We all are who we are.<br />
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Do you really love him? Or is it yourself you don't love?<br />
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Don't get mad at what I'm saying, but really - if you're giving, and he's taking, who here<br />
REALLY cares about the other? Looks like you're giving and allowing yourself nothing back.<br />
Ask yourself why that's acceptable to you, and why you want to change someone else's spots?<br />
That's a wishful mission, not realistic.<br />
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When one knows what they really want and expect, nothing less will be tolerated or acceptable.<br />
Mistakes are one thing from humans, but manipulating lies take a deliberate planning,<br />
so try viewing him for who and what he really is, and what and who you really are and want.<br />
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The world is a big place, and there's a lot of people out there that are either decent, or not.<br />
And it's an individuals choice of who we choose to hang on to. Knowing he's a liar, why are<br />
you choosing to hang on to that?

It is easy for some people to talk down to others like this. For one thing, liars are very manipulative beings who can get ANYONE to believe them and stay with them or give them more chances. Sometimes it jsut takes a while before people can see this for themselves and accept it and end things.

Lies beget deception and deception digs a hole, and you fall into it!!<br />
<br />
R

LOL! THANX! ;) I like how blunt, honest, and open you are with your feelings. You and Tink's story is interresting!

wow you give really great advice. its like you know exaclly what to say.

Lying results in a big circle that overlaps each other with la<x>yerS of lies to cover up the previous ones. It results in a BIG FAT MIGRAINE!