I Hate Being Married

after 36 years of married life i cant stand it anymore Just the sound of her voice send shivers up my spine. we dont have anything in common

ddaley ddaley
6 Responses Jul 17, 2010

yeah - me to. looking back the signs of incompatibility were there but ignored...

i totally agree, I cannot stand the sound of my husbands voice, we have a successful business, two wonderful children, the only that holds us together is our business and our kids, what is crazy is we have a good sex life, but i cannot stand him, it is making me so crazy........he thinks the world revolves around him and everyones opinion should be the same as his and if it isn't then he gets crazy mad or he can get ticked at someone and ponder for days on end and be the devil to live with, I HATE BEING MARRIED TO THIS MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You sound like me. Sex is great, the rest of the relationship I hate.

I can relate too. I Love my lil girl tho and thats the only reason Im hang n on.....and its only been 2 years and I feel like its been 50 long long long long years...ugh!!!!

Oh, wow 30 years here and I didn't even start hating him till the past 10. I can't imagine after 2 years feeling this way. I can tell you not to waste all the years of your life being miserable.

This sounds like my husband of 16 years.

I know exactly how you feel. Married for 21 years and I can't stand the man. He thinks the world should revolve around him and the farm...If I could live my life over he sure wouldn't be part of it. He won't put any money into our house. He won't fix anything, He's just a fat slob. Won't pickup after himself....and I can go on and on and on...

wow...that is a LONG time to stay with one person and for what reason? Why don't you both sit down together and talk about it or if that isn't possible talk to your children who are probably old enough to understand the way things are but please don't stay in the marriage if you're at the stage where it seems totally unbearable...she could be feeling the same way. Where is the love? I left soon after I realised there was no love between us anymore and we had been together for 27 years - I've found a new love and my life is happy but it is NEVER too late to find joy in your own life - seek and you will find but you need to let go of whatever is holding you back...