Personal Space Please

I don't like to be touched by anyone. I need my three feet of personal space. I need a force field. My husband takes it as a personal slight and can't understand it because he wants some sort of physical contact with me every minute that we are together. We've been married for almost 15 years and I'm still not completely comfortable with his touch. I jump every time someone even lightly touches my arm or back. My family growing up was not terrible touchy feely and I still find it strange to give them hugs when I'm leaving from a visit with them. It really bothers me when my children (5, 8 and 13) want to set right beside or on me. I was ok with it when they were babies but now it just doesn't seem as comfortable. I don't know what is wrong with me. I don't have a phobia about germs or anything like that. I do hate tickling. I will be angry with you for days if you even try it.
angrytp angrytp
36-40, F
Jan 14, 2013