Cheaters Are Horrible People

Men, women, doesn't matter. Just plain horrible. They come up with excuses all the time, like "I wanted to experiment," "My___ wasn't giving me what I needed," "This will make our relationship stronger." All bull. They shouldn't be allowed in public. If you love someone, you stick it out even when it gets bad. If you feel temptation, go home or go to your loved one and use those feelings on them. Cheaters don't understand how much it really hurts.

drastunir drastunir
18-21, M
5 Responses Apr 18, 2011

I feel bad for you tinker, but the fact of the matter is that I can't stand cheaters. But you weren't really in a relationship. You were in a contract that supposedly meant you were in a relationship. So I don't think you cheated really, or at least in the sense that someone who says they love another cheats.

I guess that is true. I just wish that people give a blanket statement that they hate a group, they would think and understand that there are a lot of things that you do not know. Some people hear that I cheated and pass judgement on me, I understand that, but I want to say to them to take a second, ask me what happened, why I did it. Few people will, they just think that all cheaters are scum. I will say that if anyone cheats on me, they are toast. No second chances, no anything. so I do understand your point. Sorry for your pain.

What about someone who wants to get out of a relationship but can't?? People are making blanket staements about cheaters, maybe they should take a step back and see their are MANY reasons that people cheat. For me, I had been in a VERY abusive marriage for years. I wanted out, i could not get out. I found someone that was kind to me, listened to me, treated me like a person. I made no excuses, I had told my husband for years that if he wasn't nice to me I would find someone who would be, he always said no one else will put up with you. When I met someone, I came clean. I thought that he would let me go. I was wrong. It has taken three long years but finally I am divorced. I am not saying I did it the correct way, but I did it in the only way that I could. So maybe people should hear the facts before they judge.

you go man! well said. i agree completely. if you love someone, you would never cheat on them. simple as that. infidelity sickens me.

To add to what I said, I am in love with a woman who has cheated with every single man she has ever been with... to me, it is not an issue at all. She is the most wonderful woman in the world, sensual, loving, giving, feminine, beautiful and very sexual. I don't expect her to be faithful and i don't really care. I want her to be free for her to do what she wants. In me, she finds the ideal partner... she does not have to fear being rejected because of something she would have done sexually.... We are both very happy together. Sexual faithfulness does not mean much when you have faithfulness of the heart.

There is nothing horrible about cheaters. They are people like everyone else, with their strengths and weaknesses. To think that you will be sexually satisfied with the same person for the rest of your life is not a realistic expectation. All relationships have a lifespan.