I have no sympathy for anyone who cheats on the person they claim they love so much. It doesn't matter what age, gender, race, etc. you are, if you really love someone, why cheat on them? Love in a relationship should be conditional, not situational. Arguments, disagreements, differences happen all the time but why is that an excuse for you to step out and cheat? It's not. If you want to be with someone else, leave the first person you're with before you have sex with another. You can name a hundred and one excuses on why you should/did cheat and you can hem and haw about how "you won't understand till you've been there" but remember, everything that comes out of your mouth is one thing and one thing only: excuses, and there is a saying for that: excuses are like ********, everybody's got one.