Beware Of Fornicators (for Maybe The Younger Women And Men).It takes work to make a relationship good. Both parties have to want it.
Sometimes, the relationship doesn't last long.
Perhaps it is worth reminding that when one has low self-esteem, and a bad self-image, one grasps other people's partners because one is not capable of doing that for oneself.
This is just an appeal to the younger people maybe. Women and men, please think about the children of the married partner you want to fornicate with. It is easy to screw around (go on holiday with the married partner, on a weekend, late night - on the pretext of you're working at the office, etc.) and women (and men) with low self esteem will prey on your partner.
Be super aware of this.
Women - make sure that you accompany your men whenever you can. Be carefully groomed, and attractive to YOUR spouse. Ditto men.
Because if you trust your partners, you cannot trust those who crawl around the earth, looking for a partner to fornicate with and break up your partnership.
They will tell you lies that your relationship was over already (not true - there can always be difficulties - don't add any more).
And for those who think that they are GREAT because they have gotten away with this so far, remember that there is a price tag for everything in life. And what you get away with, your children might not.
So brag if you have to. Some of us have a sense of honour and decency and still can say "no" when fornicators approach us (there's something about decent women/men saying "no" that wakes people up........sometimes......).
This weekend, out with a group of people, I was approached by a fornicator. His wife was at home, looking after the children. (I'm assuming they are his :o). Trusting him maybe. He was attractive, and seemed kind enough. He got the "no" and it stunned him into the sulks. So then he went home, to a presumably unsuspecting wife.* (I had asked him if he was married, and where his wife was).
I could easily have said "yes". And could have bragged at how G R E A T I am by managing to have (cheap) sex with a married man. It's really easy actually. You just say "yes", and undress and fornicate. Rabbits do it too.
My apologies to those (unqualifiables) who still think they are a good catch. Personally, I'd throw them back.
stephaniebis 56-60, F 6 Responses 7 Aug 21, 2012