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No I Dont

i thought i hated cheaters but that was because it happened to me.i met some nice people and friends i know who r cheating now.that doesnt make u a bad person.people do things for different reason so i aint gonna judge no one.what i really hate is to be cheated on
SINISTERMEMPHISTO SINISTERMEMPHISTO 26-30, M 14 Responses Jan 23, 2007

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I'd be pissed. I'd be super mad, I hate when people cheat, it's not right. If you love someone, you should be faithful to them, end of story. My friends have cheated on their boyfriends before and I get pissed at them cause it's not right. There is no reason someone should cheat.

I'd be pissed. I'd be super mad, I hate when people cheat, it's not right. If you love someone, you should be faithful to them, end of story. My friends have cheated on their boyfriends before and I get pissed at them cause it's not right. There is no reason someone should cheat.

put it this way.if ya best friend cheated on his wife.u would tell him its wrong.but not stop speaking to him right?

I disagree with you, no one deserves to be cheated on, and it is not right. No matter the circumstance cheating in very wrong, if you dont want to be faithful, then dont be in a relationship, it's that simple.

I so agree with you. Ppl have their reasons why they do it or tolerate it. I have been cheated on and the cheater. It's a tough pill to swallow iether way.

Cheating, lying, stealing, etc.... does not mean that the person doing it is "bad" or "evil". Genocide and wars have people killing others based on ob<x>jectifying the person or group enough to be able to harm them (not as people but 'things'). Many of these people love their mothers, fathers and children...and are "good" people. <br />
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Cheating hurts people that have particular values. If the "cheater" has values that sees this behaviour as wrong, selfish and cruel, it will even hurt (him/her) to do it. For someone to do something that is not congruent with their values affects them... Soooo to feel okay about hurting someone, people need to dehumanize the 'Other' enough to "use" them for their own means... Turning ppl into ob<x>jects is a common way for ppl to do things that they wouldn't normally feel good doing. <br />
- The person that gets extremely hurt by 'cheating' is the person that does not ob<x>jectify the other, but values them as a human being.

are you cheating if ya seperated?

makes sense georgia.like i said my opion has changed.

Cheating causes so much pain that there is never an excuse for it. In some cases people are starved for attention because they are ignored by there partner.<br />
In those cases I can understand somewhat. But needs have to be communicated first. If those needs are then ignored then it is almost unavoidable that cheating will sooner or later take place. Make any sense?

CERTAINLY YOU CAN CHEAT AND STILL LOVE.THATS THE PERSONS DECISION.MY FEELINGS HAVE WAVERED ON THIS PARTICULAR SUBJECT.

NOT OFFENEDED BUDDY.JUST SAYING OLD NEWS.I WONDER IF I SHOULD ERASE AFTER AWHILE.I AGREE THOUGH,WHY CHEAT-JUST MOVE ON

FROGGS THIS STORY OLD.I DONE MOVED OUT

Don't hate. Participate.

everyone hates to be cheated on even the people who cheat hate it .. it hurts when u love someone