Just Seems ContagiousI have always tried to live drama free, it's just how I like things but it's every-damn-where. My Fiance doesn't like drama either but recently it came to him when he got drunk and his tongue got loose. People can't seem to just take it for what it is and they turn it into something else. I am honest for the most part, I can usually tell upon a first meeting if I'm going to have a a potential good friend or not and even if we'll get along. My close friends know this and they introduced me to a friend I had obviously not met yet. I was nice and respectful but I knew we would not get along and I told my friends that and of course they told the other girl.
I didn't care I had nothing to hide and the girl assumed it was like fighting words which only proved my point but she confronted me and I was totally honest. "I don't like you but I don't hate you, it's not like I will wish bad things on you...I just know we'll never be the type of peole to hang out if it wasn't for our mutual friend is all."
Simple but it was just over her head and every chance she had she tried to spread rumors and other silly stuff. And what started off in the living room of a friends house ended up in every classroom of school and beyond. It didn't bother me b/c everyone that mattered to me knew what was true and what wasn't but this is the main thing I hate about drama...it spreads and grows.