I Just Don't Get ItWhy can't a guy be caring, understanding, and sensitive? Just because I believe in respect and being supportive doesn't mean that I'm not a man. Where is it written that every man must be cold and uncaring? So what if I'm different from the "average" man, that doesn't make any of these things wrong either.
You do not have to be self-centered to be a man. I am not a girl or gay because I actually listen to people. I am not a chick because I am supportive of the people in my life. Caring does not make me weak. In fact, I don't understand the guys who have no respect and find it easy to be cruel and uncaring.
I find women who are strong and independent attractive (I love a woman who can kick my butt). I fell for my last girlfriend while we were rebuilding an engine together. Just because a woman isn't all emotional and soft doesn't mean that she's not just a woman.
I hope that some day society will learn that there is no such thing as "cookie cutter" people. Not every one is the same, but that doesn't mean that they are not people. Besides, why does every one think that every thing is there business. If I'm not screwing you then what does my physical or my true gender have to do with you? It's not any of your business, so what difference does it make if I'm a "traditional" man or not. People just need to mind their business and stop pigeonholing others.