Not Too Sure...

I'm not sure if my friend here is flirting with my guy. Let's just call her a B.

We normally hang out and get wasted together. So once B is drunk she gets slutty all over! Overly touchy and loud esp towards my bf and dance like a crazy *****! My boyfriend finds her cute but to him she's like a little sister.

There's once when we were in club, for no reason my guy just lifted her and gave her a spin right in front of me. Next i caught her laying on my boyfriend's lap sleeping. When i asked what is going on, she got up apologize and said she's drunk. My bf push all the blame to her saying she came on to me.

I'm not sure if she's starting to flirt with my bf or am i over reacting? Is my bf showing any signs he's interested/receptive towards her? Pls help cause i don't wanna be a dumb *** again!
dezien90 dezien90
22-25, F
2 Responses Aug 29, 2012

We just got together close than a year, and I don't want him think that I'm the "uptight" kinda girl. I'm not sure if I'm being over-paranoid =/

You WILL go paranoid if you just let it be in the back of your mind. Tell him about it. Because it's unrealistic to change this side of you while this goes on. Better be honest about it.

You're not showing a lot of confidence in your boyfriend trying to handle the issue yourself. Why don't you take it up with him and tell him you don't like how she's being with him. He can push her away when she's like that if that's what you prefer.