Ok, so here's the thing... We are alllll over each other, in a kissy cute public display of affection kind of way. We are not shy about being affectionate anywhere, any time. I have a left hand ring, which is obviously my engagement ring, and he has an engagement ring too.
AND THEY STILL HIT ON HIM IN FRONT OF ME.
It's not only rude and kind of skanky, but somewhere there has to be a girl rule against it right? Don't flirt with guys when their partner is RIGHT THERE?? I may have been a huge flirt when I was single (and I mean huge) but I never EVER flirted with someone who I knew had a girlfriend or partner. Ever. I just wouldn't do it. But for some reason, other girls find it perfectly acceptable.
He has no idea they are flirting with him. He has the flirt radar of a lampshade. I flirted with him from 5pm till 6am one day and he had no idea... He gets kind of embarrassed and grumpy about girls flirting with him when I draw his attention to it. So its not like he's drooling down girl's cleavage when they flirt with him. But it still makes me so mad because he's mine and people should respect that.
Like this girl who works at our supermarket. Every time we get her on the check out she flirts with him. The last time she actually BATTERED HER EYELASHES at him!!! Who does that anymore??? She makes cute little jokes at him and teases him and smiles and says all this flirty sh*t. He walks out going 'Wow, what a b*tch' because he thinks she's just rude, and I'm thinking the same thing only because she's flirting with him and I'm standing right there loading shopping bags. And she'll talk to him all the time and try and cut me out of the conversation. I just smile a lot and talk to her anyway. And she gives me this look like 'how dare you, I'm talking to him'. And it's like, well how dare you flirt with my fiance when I'm right here and you'd have to be a complete dunce not to notice we're together and in love and engaged, so just **** off ok?
Then you get the girls who watch you while they flirt with him. Like the girl working at the service station last weekend. I was standing outside while he went in to pay for the fuel. And she'd smile and say something and then look at me with this smug little look. It was just so... skanky. Not to mention irritating. Even the older lady filling her car up next to ours noticed what this girl was doing so talk about obvious.
I hate it. I hate the girls who do it. It's like they think can just flirt with him and he'll forget all about me. I hate it so much and it drives me nuts.