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THE Fear

I know the feeling of being beaten very well.  I was there myself...for many years.  Going to work with bruises and I have to tell a lie to my colleagues.

No longer the wife of this man now...I call it quit cos not only did he hit me...he betrayed me for years and yet denies it.  I asked him to leave ...not an easy decision especially when we have a child together but I made it.  Is been 3 years now...and I am much more happier and relieved knowing that I don't need to be afraid to go home. 

I am now with a boyfriend who is against men hitting women as well. =)

Eternal Eternal 31-35, F 8 Responses Nov 15, 2007

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A man who hits a woman, is a bully and only hits her because he is terrified of her strong will, that is always the case...what a jerk

a man who hits a woman is not a man at all.

same here i had a boyfriend who hit me and i had to lie to my class mates at school.

*same

I know how it feels...I was with an abusive man who always thought I was cheating but I never was...I was scared to get up to go to the bathroom or do anything.
Bcuz he would hit me thinking I was sneaking out. I would cry myself to sleep so scared...sometimes n the middle of the night he would touch me trying to have sex n I wouldn't want to bcuz he creeped me out wen he dis that and when I'd say no he would rip my pants off and "spank" me so hard like he was punishing me...I still have.nightmares. of him.


Now I'm with a wonderful man who I'm very happy with and.feel so safe bcuz he would.never harm.me in any way. He is.my Superman :) and we are deeply in love.

I dont know you, but am happy for you, happy you found a nice man and left that jerk.

Having kids involved always makes it harder to justify leaving their other parent. By now I'm sure you're aware you did the right thing by your child. How long before he turned his rage to the kid, and even if he didn't what sort of influence would he have? I'm going to post a story on the "I hate guys men who abuse women" board, would love your feedback. Glad to hear of your new happiness.

It is worth leaving men who hits women. There is definitely NO REGRETS!

GREAT TO READ THESE STORYS.I WAS BEATEN 3 YRS IM JUST OUT 2 WKS NOW.HARD BUT KNOWING THAT MAN TOOK SO MUCH FROM ME MAKES ME HATE HIM.......IM HAPPY TO SEE THERE IS LIGHT...THANK YOU FOR SHARING.

get way away from that scum.

Sure did!. =)