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Never Have, Never Will

I'm a vehemently childfree twenty-something woman and just never, ever had a maternal instinct. Growing up, my baby dolls got mutilated and painted over and generally crushed into oblivion...meanwhile, my stuffed animals remained pristine and were taken care of. No shock, I always hated kids and loved animals, and nothing has changed as far as where such instincts lie. What can I say? As far as I'm concerned, there is absolutely no benefit to having kids - unless you're stranded and starving on an island or in the mountains, in which case you can turn a baby into some nice cutlets. :)

But besides that, I cannot fathom why anyone would voluntarily sign up for an unpaid job with no vacation and no perks - one where you actually have to pay money to do the job, too. And if you do the job poorly like most parents do, you may end up with a little sociopath who never leaves home. And for what? So this little ungrateful beast can tell you it hates you on a regular basis? So it can get knocked up and fob the resulting bastard off on you? So it ages you thirty years and makes you a desirable mate only to an equally diaper-whipped significant other? To hell with that. Having kids is not worth the trouble, the cost, the bodily destruction...they are worthless and I hate them. And those are just the normal ones - don't evne get me started on the retarded or undisciplined ones. I want t kick the normal ones the second they open their mouths.

If my choice makes me selfish or immature or any of the other things parents themselves are that they accuse us of being (projection, in psychology), then fine. I would rather be immature and selfish by some idiot stranger's standards and be happy than be mature and selfless by said idiot's standards and also be miserable. Life's too short to spend it doing stuff you don't want to do, so why bother? I don't want kids, so am I supposed to have them because society says I have to to be normal? Screw that.
StrawberryPocky StrawberryPocky 22-25, F 11 Responses Jan 24, 2011

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The reason the "breeders" want other people to have kids is, that they are jealous of your care-free lifestyle and they want you to be just as broke and miserable as they are, because misery loves company....do not fall into that trap.

People have kids because of vanity (yet they are calling us selfish lol)
Just ask any of them why they had kids....
You will get something like:
"who's going to take care of me when I'm old"?....clear act of vanity..... also misguided, as the brat(s) will likely shove them into some cheap and sketchy old-age home and steal whatever they have left for themselves....
I always like to say, that for the money I save by NOT having kids, I can afford to retire in style and luxury instead....
Or you might get the "I want someone to love me and look up to me"....again a clear act of selfish vanity....better off getting a dog for that....
Or the ultimate selfish act..."I want my genes to carry on".....arrogantly assuming, that the already over populated world needs or gives a **** about your degenerate genes anyway....

I enjoy doing what I want, when I want...I enjoy being able to keep my money to myself, not having a messy house, that smells like vomit and I enjoy getting a good night's sleep....that is why the "breeders" don't like me.

You're wrong. I like you. I like you a lot. I like you because your hateful nature makes you such a perfect example of your type.

Noticed you posted this on Christmas Day. Sitting around "childfree" and alone on Christmas Day, nothing else to do but go on Experience Project, eh? Not surprising I guess, for such a "happy" LOL, "childfree" wingnut.

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Ok. I hate kids too. And at first I was having fun reading everyone's stories and agreeing with everything said. But then I started to realize that most of the "women" here are crazy cat ladies. I bet some of you even make out with your dog. I'm scared! I'm.... just... gonna... leave....now... *turns around and runs*

good run away.

i ******* HATE kids. i feel exactly the same way.

I have never been one to follow the herd...unless I was lost. If I had to go somewhere and I didn't know where it was and had no time to find out on my own, I would follow someone going the same way. As far as my life, there are some things I'm uncertain about and some things I am most definitely certain about...but I am not lost.<br />
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What can I say? I always do my own thing, I like to break the rules...not the law, but just the confines of things like what society tells me I have to do. What teachers tell me I have to do. I push limits, I do what makes me happy while not harming others. Not having children is something that makes me happy and is also a life choice I am sure about. It's a lifelong commitment I am not willing to make EVER - hell, I've been waffling over getting an eyebrow ring and a tattoo for years and those don't even hurt anymore after a few weeks.<br />
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People don't like what I do, how I look, what I say, how I dress...screw 'em.

I have never been one to follow the herd...unless I was lost. If I had to go somewhere and I didn't know where it was and had no time to find out on my own, I would follow someone going the same way. As far as my life, there are some things I'm uncertain about and some things I am most definitely certain about...but I am not lost.<br />
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What can I say? I always do my own thing, I like to break the rules...not the law, but just the confines of things like what society tells me I have to do. What teachers tell me I have to do. I push limits, I do what makes me happy while not harming others. Not having children is something that makes me happy and is also a life choice I am sure about. It's a lifelong commitment I am not willing to make EVER - hell, I've been waffling over getting an eyebrow ring and a tattoo for years and those don't even hurt anymore after a few weeks.<br />
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People don't like what I do, how I look, what I say, how I dress...screw 'em.

I agree 100% with everything you said. You're still in your twenties, but hopefully you will never change. You have the right idea. No sense in enslaving yourself with endless work and responsibility as well as financial burden when it's totally not necessary. Unfortunately we are in the minority and the world sees parents (mothers especially) as being so great, when in fact, unless they're rich and completely confident about their parenting abilities, they're stupid and selfish people who insist on bringing their stupid little clones into the world. My parents included! I told them since I was a child that they had no busness having children.

Evidently, you had bad parents. Evidently, it left you with a chip on your shoulder and a hatred of the world. This is the only way that you could see mothers and "stupid" and "selfish". It's sad. This group is full of malcontents and misfits, it's not funny.

how about
before convicting another kid to life imprisonment
you ask him if he wants to be born
you narcissistic piece of ****

"Diaper whipped" I love it ! HILARIOUS !

Ohh don't even get me started on how backwards America is as far as who is more entitled to welfare. I loathe that a childfree person who works themselves to death and still cannot afford to live gets jack **** as far as assistance, but some little slag who couldn't figure out a condom and has a few kids can get everything...free house, free car, free food, free money. And of course this seems like a far nicer alternative to the average and stupid person: why bother working hard when you can just have some kids and get a whole lot of free money? Easily influenced young people may see going on the dole forever as a career choice and that they deserve free money for what society has deemed the most important job in the world.<br />
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No, it should be the other way around - reward the people who have no kids. Offer tax breaks for sterilized folks. Offer free birth control and abortion. Make it as hard as possible to afford a kid...like no bennies if you have a kid while on welfare, and insurance doesn't cover pre-natal and post-natal care. Give people incentives to NOT breed, especially cash incentives.<br />
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Overpopulation is a huge concern...between more people living longer (thus dying less often) and people being born more often (thus fewer dying at birth), space and resources are dwindling very fast. This planet cannot sustain billions and billions of people and something WILL happen to help cull the herd - a plague, most likely.<br />
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I just don't see why anyone would want to bring a kid into a world like this one. It's an awful world to live in and it will never get better. Of course the mommies don't care because when the world goes to **** in 50 years, they'll be dead and their kids can deal with it. What kind of person could look at all the horrible things happening around them and decide they want to subject a child to it all? And I just want to beat my boss' head in with a wrench - she's pregnant with quintuplets. That's five unnecessary babies being born to someone who I can already tell will be a horrible parent. Fabulous.

The truest measure of an society is the degree to which it cares for its most precious resources. Children are our most precious resources. Think about it. If everyone thought the way that you do, the human race would become extinct in one generation, and how would that benefit anyone?

The world has never been perfect and will never be perfect. How does refusing to have children help that? No children, in fifty years' time, no world at all.

And, you know, in spite of the world's problems, most people can and most people do live happy lives. That seems to be beyond you.

Overpopulation is a myth. Why the hell are you so hateful that you want to "beat" your boss' "head in with a wrench" because the woman is expecting children? Who are you to say that her children are "unnecessary"? You want your choice respected, so why can't you respect the choice of others?

Man, came here on a lark, never expected to see such hateful blatherings.

There are over 8 billion people on this planet. Over population is well documented, studied sociological studied issue. I bet you don't believe in global warming, either.

You are a trolling cunttard.

Yes, I believe in global warming. And I say that overpopulation is a myth because you could fit the entire population of the world in the space that takes up Jacksonville, Florida. It's not population that's the problem, it's the distribution of resources. YOU are an idiotic fucktard, and I'll troll if I want to, *******. Go cry to the non-existent mods.

Bullshit...booze is our most precious resource.

Most people can blame it for their being on this earth.

You make me sick, talking about people who have children and get assistance like they're living in the lap of luxury. Ignoramuses only talk about welfare recipients that way. Get to work and stop whining. If you want to be a genetic dead end, then be one, but stop flinging your self-hatred onto others.

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LMAO, I LOVED your story, I AGREE 1000000%! Nothing but ungrateful bastards from the beginning, UNLESS UNLESS you are the 1% that actually has a kid with an angelic conscience that IS actually kind, grateful, and grows up to be a productive citizen. (of course not without some sort of major heartache does this even happen!) Problem is 2 things with these damn breeders. 1. Most pregnancies are ACCIDENTS, (65% are supposedly UNplanned) this means GOD KNOWS who you just reproduced with, what genes in your kid you are gonna get stuck with, AND you have given NO thought to planning this pregnancy which probably means you aren't ready nor capable of being a parent. 2. Most people are miserable F****S! So, you are going to bring a kid into the world thinking this kid is gonna shine light on your pathetic life and/or relationship... but instead causes more chaos because you hated your life from the start, kids ADD stress you idiots! You aren't making enough money, and living off the govt where the REST of us have to pay for YOUR stupidity! The "system" is also designed to reward bad behavior. If you are a hard working citizen, who supports yourself, educates yourself, and god forbid has an emergency and you actually NEED state services like food stamps or an emergency electric bill paid, OH NO, you are S**T out of luck because you don't have 4 illegitimate children! But if you have a child or two, knocked up as a 19 year old, and living on welfare, you are given EVERYTHING YOU NEED! WTF! How backwards is this S***T?? I mean really? Let's PUNISH the smart people, and give the brainless idiots everything they need to keep having more on the TAX payers DIME! OMG. Don't get me started. If this race dies out from its strain of resources and stupidity, I could care less, SO sick of everyone walking around like they are so high and mighty because they spread their legs and allowed their egg to fertilize in shallow, biological, animalistic act that ANYONE can do! It takes a smarter person to wake and say, "I'm not adding to this rediculous over population problem!!" Why do you think Egypt was in such an uproar! OVER population, and the govt can't support all these people who act like animals! And people in 3rd world countries like India, having children and can't feed them and selling them to prostitution? WTF!!!!!!!!!!???? How is THAT more moral over legal abortion!????? Ok, I could go on and on... sorry. Breeding is honestly the basis of all the problems with ALL the problems in the world, break it down, and see for yourself. And if idiots weren't breeding more idiots, we'd have more educated and SMART people thinking more carefully about their choices... and we wouldn't HAVE an overpopulation problem! And breeders call US NON breeders selfish? Selfish is bringing a child into the world when you don't have the time, patience, money, and stability to care for it RIGHT! Selfish is having a child so PARENTS can have a personal friggin' slave, someone to make feel guilty into caring for them when they are old out of fear of their mortality. Selfish is not understanding that this world is already STRAINED on resources, yet with a blatant disregard for humanity on the whole, fill up the earth anyway with more screaming, demanding, spoiled whining brats. THAT's F********G selfish!

Wow, you are really deranged.

I love this article!!!! And no I dont even think babies are "cute"!!! But to be nice and avoid drama, I lie to the parents ;) We shouldnt be forced to like or want to be around kids just because most people do!