Pos KidsI've never liked kids, but I think my hatred ignited when my boyfriend's sister had her second illegitimate child with a married man twice her age. She had her first child when she was 20 with her then boyfriend who she later dumped. Then she got married to a guy in the Navy and left him (but they're still married because she needs those sweet benefits for her rug rats). Right when she was leaving her Navy husband, she got pregnant but it (thankfully) resulted in a miscarriage. She got all upset about it for some reason (she's had 5-7 abortions previously so you think she'd be used to having fetuses die). So then she hooked up with a married middle school teacher who is very much NOT separated from his wife since he lives with her, their two kids, and his mother to this very day. She had his child a year ago and lives with my boyfriend's parents who are nearing retirement age and shouldn't be raising two children and having their grown POS daughter mooching off of them.
Anyway - aside from this scenario being not so ideal, the two girls are awful. The older one (who is now 5) is a total brat. My boyfriend's mother (who hasn't worked a day in her life because she's a baby factory and doesn't have to work) dotes on the child and buys her everything that she would ever want even though the child deserves nothing. The baby gets the same treatment. In fact, my boyfriend's mother threw out all of the older child's hand-me-down clothes because she wants the baby to have all new clothing even though the fathers provide no support for said clothing (or food, or shelter, or anything - my boyfriend's father finances their lives 100% along with the rest of their family). I've gotten a little bitter about this money situation especially because whenever my boyfriend and I need anything we are forced to ask my parents because his parents are paying for his sister's two little mistakes. Not only that, but they purposefully did not pay for my boyfriend's college tuition because they thought he needed the responsibility. So he's in major college debt still, but they WILL pay for these two children who in my mind are mistakes unlike a college education which is a positive life change. Plus their fathers should be paying for the children - not the grandparents. Why do people get rewarded for screwing up? It makes no sense.
So I have a good deal of resentment towards these two children. I did not like children beforehand and this situation has put the nail in the coffin. My boyfriend's mom and his stupid sister ask me when I'm having kids and I say never. Although I've been saying that for over 2 years they just don't seem to get it.
Snare 26-30, F 3 Responses 4 Nov 13, 2011