I Hate Liars
...but too often comes close to the mark concerning liars. Liars share the same bed with back-stabbers, gossips, scammers, and in fact are often one and the same being all but indistinguishable from these and other unsavory sorts such as those who bear false witness. This is very serious, as those who embellish, add to, distort or otherwise twist their accusations (testimony) against others are using the exact method that will be used to judge them.
Liars by their very nature are insidious creatures. Habitual liars have so often used lies as excuses or to divert attention to themselves they simply give themselves a kind of psychosis, where they can not seem to stop and worse, start believing their own lies. This sort of liar is perhaps the lowest of the bottom feeders.
Closely related to liars is all kinds of sociopathic individuals, and likely you have seen some here. They go about causing problems and upset towards whomever they feel are weak, much like Monkeys throw their own feces...and they think they are so clever! Wow all that wit! Throwing or stirring feces takes so much talent-losers!
Now let's set some reasonable boundaries too, while we are at it . Guys, if your wife or girl friend asks you "Does this dress make my butt look big?", do NOT quip "like the broad side of a barn". Trust me, you win no points being honest in such matters. Instead say: "You look fine, but perhaps this other dress would look even better on you".
See? Lies can be beneficial and also increase your life span simultaneously. People, it is okay to lie to spare feelings-but don't patronize! As long as the lie is not hurtful, hateful and causes no harm to others or "negative benefits" to ones self (say retribution and such whereas sparing feelings or self preservation is a "positive" benefit).
Liars will stew in their own filth much like those who carry anger around will stew in their own juices. Neither one is going to make things better-far from it-it makes thing worse and the carrier even more miserable. Liars have to keep on lying, and not only to try to cover previous lies, but also in a vain attempt to quell their own own easiness and to distract themselves to what they really are and do. It's not a pretty sight, so liars keep going in a never ending progression of the spinning plates...and eventually it crashes down.
This is exactly why lying can be a pathology-a sickness-that needs professional help. Until they face their demons like an adult, stay away from the first sign of a liar. They can never be your friend and in fact can never be anyones friend. Heck, they can't be a friend to themselves! You will often see liars with a victim mentality, as they do not take personal responsibility very well at all, despite any airs they try to maintain to the contrary. Watch for the psycho-babble (they put the "psycho" in "babble") from the more intelligent ones. They run in mental circles like a gerbil in a wheel. Watdh for them blaming others and circumstances for their lot in life. Losers like this never rise above their circumstances because they ARE their circumstances.
People have to be honest with themselves, in order to be honest with others...just like we have to love ourselves in order to love others...and liars do neither of these things. Most Human Beings learn this fairly early in life, but the liar keeps on spinning-literally and figuratively, often at least feigning a desire for those things that they will never have, because they refuse to do what is really needed...and that's no lie.
Liars by their very nature are insidious creatures. Habitual liars have so often used lies as excuses or to divert attention to themselves they simply give themselves a kind of psychosis, where they can not seem to stop and worse, start believing their own lies. This sort of liar is perhaps the lowest of the bottom feeders.
Closely related to liars is all kinds of sociopathic individuals, and likely you have seen some here. They go about causing problems and upset towards whomever they feel are weak, much like Monkeys throw their own feces...and they think they are so clever! Wow all that wit! Throwing or stirring feces takes so much talent-losers!
Now let's set some reasonable boundaries too, while we are at it . Guys, if your wife or girl friend asks you "Does this dress make my butt look big?", do NOT quip "like the broad side of a barn". Trust me, you win no points being honest in such matters. Instead say: "You look fine, but perhaps this other dress would look even better on you".
See? Lies can be beneficial and also increase your life span simultaneously. People, it is okay to lie to spare feelings-but don't patronize! As long as the lie is not hurtful, hateful and causes no harm to others or "negative benefits" to ones self (say retribution and such whereas sparing feelings or self preservation is a "positive" benefit).
Liars will stew in their own filth much like those who carry anger around will stew in their own juices. Neither one is going to make things better-far from it-it makes thing worse and the carrier even more miserable. Liars have to keep on lying, and not only to try to cover previous lies, but also in a vain attempt to quell their own own easiness and to distract themselves to what they really are and do. It's not a pretty sight, so liars keep going in a never ending progression of the spinning plates...and eventually it crashes down.
This is exactly why lying can be a pathology-a sickness-that needs professional help. Until they face their demons like an adult, stay away from the first sign of a liar. They can never be your friend and in fact can never be anyones friend. Heck, they can't be a friend to themselves! You will often see liars with a victim mentality, as they do not take personal responsibility very well at all, despite any airs they try to maintain to the contrary. Watch for the psycho-babble (they put the "psycho" in "babble") from the more intelligent ones. They run in mental circles like a gerbil in a wheel. Watdh for them blaming others and circumstances for their lot in life. Losers like this never rise above their circumstances because they ARE their circumstances.
People have to be honest with themselves, in order to be honest with others...just like we have to love ourselves in order to love others...and liars do neither of these things. Most Human Beings learn this fairly early in life, but the liar keeps on spinning-literally and figuratively, often at least feigning a desire for those things that they will never have, because they refuse to do what is really needed...and that's no lie.