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I Hate Love

Love Is Not Real

By: AGH22
Written on December 14th, 2012
By: AGH22
Age: 16-17 , Male
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  • seatbeltssavelives

    I'm sorry for the hurt you must feel in your heart. I hope a nice girl will find you someday & sweep you off your feet. For now, just hang in there & live one day at a time. You will be alright. Please take care.

    4 days ago
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  • lifesanadventure

    aww give yourself time. when u least expect it love is gonna happen for u.that is what happened to me :)

    4 days ago
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  • SparkySeesAngels

    That's because you haven't found true love. I hope you do someday, since hardly anyone seems to find it these days...

    May 1
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  • Dean9280

    Just give it plenty of time. It will get better

    Apr 4
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  • SesshomaruDemonLord

    You are saying that because you're hurt. I believe that everything happens for a reason. Maybe that happened to you so that in the future, you wouldn't be one of the pathetic couples who will get divorced just because one cheated or they're sick already. Maybe this happen to you so that when you met that partner, like all of us, who you wish would love you no matter what, you would be prepared. You will not easily break or will easily decide to get divorce because you experienced pain already more than that. And with that, your children would not be like those, sorry for my word but this is true, most screwed up kids. And maybe, you might guide your children so they would not experience the way you did. Never stop believing in love.

    Mar 19
    2 likes
  • jellydoll

    i feel the same way too

    Mar 9
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  • smileforlovenow

    I'm pretty sure everyone in this world hates "Love". Love these days is evil and selfish, and rude.

    But true love (which I blindly believe in) isn't like that. Or at least that's what I hope. True love could never hurt anybody, it's real and faithful and kind. It's what bring the little light in the this world. And I'm not even talking about romantic love, any TRUE LOVE is good love.

    What you are experiencing isn't love. When you feel love, you'll know it will never hurt you.

    Feb 28
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  • Denyafaqe

    u are right bro Alex...............love destroy everything ...love only beautiful between husband and her wife ...love is bad between boys and girls...i can tell every one ,i love you like my brothers and sisters ........beleive me u are good boy .u are strong..dont let any girl and boy hurt you...dont show anyone that you you are weak cause they will be happy..life is woderful ...........u are strong..........

    Feb 19
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  • Kaneesha

    Listen to Adele. Sometimes it hurts and sometimes it lasts instead. You are not alone but love is everything. The good the bad n the ugly.

    Feb 14
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  • Monkey11613

    there is no reason to hate love HATE is a big word and well you will never get anywhere with hate trust me you are young and well have a whole life ahead of you be yourself be happy just because that girl didnt ask you out then its her lost and that boy who is a jerk his karma will come you need to keep your head up and live life to the fullest..just because you are poor?that is no reason i am poor as well and well guess what i dont feel poor why? because i got my mom my sister my health even tho i am no so great n health myself but at lest i can walk around cook and everything i mean there are kids out there that have cancer that cant walk that cant do nothing all they can do it watch the world form a hospital window, but you do you have any of that? i mean this kid would just love to even have a chance to explore the word and love whom they please they would like an "illusion" at least..so keep your head up

    Feb 3
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  • MANGAGIRL1

    Oh my gosh! You have been really badly hurt!
    Aye love can badly hurt you, because you open up yourselve to the person you love so deeply that the " fall" is hard and brutal!
    I wish you that one day the person comes along that loves you without looking where you come from and what you have!

    Feb 3
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  • lightshadow

    **** love? No. **** the person who made you think that.

    Jan 13
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  • UndefinedLabelessStrangeChick

    I'm a cynical ***** about love and intimacy and sanity and the world in general. But, kid, you need to lighten up. "hating love" for some chicas and chicos who brush aside the good guys to find the ******** and ******* is pointless. Don't be spiteful and hateful because of them. Forgive them, not for them, but for yourself. You will find someone who laughs with you and cries with you and stays with you when you need it most. and when it does happen you will look back on this and think "how could I ever have felt like this when I had this great person who was going to come into (or was already in) my life?"

    Jan 13
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  • Marchioni15

    Ohhhh u will be fine but that is how i feel when i cant find love but jerks can

    Jan 13
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  • Lilwolf12

    Hey dnt think like that, you just haven't met the right girl yet. I know it doesn't seem like that but it's true. Love is real you just have to find it

    Jan 4
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  • Sexychick77

    Love is a privilege that you get and you shouldn't let it go. If those relationships didn't work out it's because you haven't met the right person, but he or she is out there and don't worry about finding him/her give it some time and later on they will end up finding you. Don't give up on love because its not love's fault. Our lives have been planned out for us even before we were born and don't let your self-esteem be affected because it's their fault for not noticing what a good person they are hurting. And how are we going to make the world a better place without having love in our lives? Love is a key to open doors, you just have to find the right door. After, that the road will be bumpy, but try your best not to fall. If you do someone will be looking out for you and will help you back onto your feet.

    Jan 4
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  • fridaygurl

    i dont mind wot u think.
    its up to u
    no judgement
    have fun!

    Dec 29, 2012
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  • Deadlylovely13

    You'r 100% right.

    Dec 21, 2012
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  • sheisintoit

    O M G

    Dec 21, 2012
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  • FuqItallWithHumor

    Oh my f*ckiing god dude, suck it up and please dont say you "hate" love you oviously dont know or at least have never experienced REAL love. I mean you, in your own story, showed that you think love is about stupid school dating and CRUSHES otice how i said CRUSHES you freaking idiot kids. CRUSHES not love dont mistake the two, maybe youve never had a good example to work of off. But please dont say you hate love when so many else are actually dealing with LOVE and not stupid crushes and highschool dating. Most of these members are still in high school or middle school. Guys dont act like you could ever know or understand whaty true love is and dont think just because she/he gave yu a smile and you think hes "sooo hawt" that you are in love. ITS A CRUSH. HORMONES. get over it and dont you dare go around bad talking something you have no even vague idea of yet lol, although this did give me a good laugh.

    Dec 18, 2012
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  • penguin03

    Sorry for what you have been through. I experience times when I do not like love but I would say do not give up on it! I know I am not giving up on it, love is real and it does exist, do not let it go.

    Dec 15, 2012
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  • will4all2be1

    out of your 16-17 years of life how much of it did you use for love?
    there are at least 70-80 years ahead of you to change your mind.
    whatever made you think this will be changed by the experiences you will have coming at you just like the experience you have already had to make you think like this now.
    you have the power to change direction if what is coming at you is undesirable.
    you have experience now to change what might come before it happens.
    we all did and we are all still capable of love in spite of the entire world seemingly lacking it.
    giving it up is joining the ones that made you see it this way and making another see it this way too.

    Dec 15, 2012
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  • rchatto

    just be cool and nice, believe be it will work. money cannot buy love.

    Dec 15, 2012
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  • ExtraSpecial

    Sorry but I don't agree. Love exists, it's just become harder to find...

    Dec 15, 2012
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  • Jay04Sch

    dont give up just yet, love is out theire

    Dec 15, 2012
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  • ziie7

    for me, love is not just for my boyfriend or my husband (in future, cz i'm single now).. i don't even know about love like that, because honestly i haven't been in love with someone before. but i believe that love is very important and beautiful .. my family love me, my best friends love me, nd i'm sure that God loves me abundantly.. that's enough for me to loving others.. good luck, i wish the best for u.. :)

    Dec 15, 2012
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  • sweetblasphemy

    lol you're 17. That should say it all.

    One day you will know the difference between real love, hate, joy, despair, etc and what simply makes you have a hissy fit when you're a bratty teenager. Then you will yearn for the days when you THOUGHT you knew it all. Good luck with that "growing up" stuff :)

    Dec 14, 2012
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  • Deadlylovely13

    I care, Its important **** you too This touched me alone with how many others ... But if you wnat me to ignore you and call you scum fine whatever tickles your **** ..

    Dec 14, 2012
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  • Yukidrag0n

    I've gotta say, what you're explaining right here isn't even close to love. That is a crush and disappointment...You don't date someone because you love them, you date someone to get to know them and to fall in love with them. You MARRY someone you love, not before. I dated by fiance for several months before we even said "I love you", before that we had liked each other very strongly and decided to peruse more.

    Dec 14, 2012
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  • FuqItallWithHumor

    Oh my f*ckiing god dude, suck it up and please dont say you "hate" love you oviously dont know or at least have never experienced REAL love. I mean you, in your own story, showed that you think love is about stupid school dating and CRUSHES otice how i said CRUSHES you freaking idiot kids. CRUSHES not love dont mistake the two, maybe youve never had a good example to work of off. But please dont say you hate love when so many else are actually dealing with LOVE and not stupid crushes and highschool dating. Most of these members are still in high school or middle school. Guys dont act like you could ever know or understand whaty true love is and dont think just because she/he gave yu a smile and you think hes "sooo hawt" that you are in love. ITS A CRUSH. HORMONES. get over it and dont you dare go around bad talking something you have no even vague idea of yet lol, although this did give me a good laugh.

    Dec 14, 2012
    1 like

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