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Love Is Not Real

For one thing that I hate is love. Love in today's world is just hard core cold evil. You think its good well it's not. Love is only destroy my life and I have been in some relationships that they just leave me! Love makes me sick.
No body that I think would ever come to me. Its not that I am ugly or rude, it's just that I'm poor and starting to have lowself a steam. Like for a example is trwp dance was tonight and that's when a girl would ask a boy. So I got a clue and it only said "will". So I figure that maybe other clues would come later, but they didn't. It made me sad then later broke my heart that the girl who was going to ask me out ask a guy the was a jerk.
I hate love and no I'm not too young for it and dont feel sorry for because I know it's a lie. **** you world I'm sick of it! Love go to he'll! and you rich ******** better go **** off!
AGH22 AGH22 18-21, M 47 Responses Dec 14, 2012

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Trust me bro, it gets better. You've got a lot of awesome and pain to experience yet. It'll be a wild ride, but totally worth it. I promise. :)

I agree with you but for the opposite reason

I know how you feel. I felt like you when I fell in love with the perfect guy and he turned into a jerk.'s okay if you're not ready. Most people think they're ready but they're really not, because they don't know what love really means. They don't understand what love takes, and how incredible, pure and irreplaceable it is. And the reason they go around breaking peoples' hearts is because they don't understand how much love can hurt people. Very few people really understand love. But some people do. And those are the people everyone is looking for. Love is real. In a way, love is the definition of everything that is real.

I love you

I'm sorry for the hurt you must feel in your heart. I hope a nice girl will find you someday & sweep you off your feet. For now, just hang in there & live one day at a time. You will be alright. Please take care.

That's because you haven't found true love. I hope you do someday, since hardly anyone seems to find it these days...

Just give it plenty of time. It will get better

You are saying that because you're hurt. I believe that everything happens for a reason. Maybe that happened to you so that in the future, you wouldn't be one of the pathetic couples who will get divorced just because one cheated or they're sick already. Maybe this happen to you so that when you met that partner, like all of us, who you wish would love you no matter what, you would be prepared. You will not easily break or will easily decide to get divorce because you experienced pain already more than that. And with that, your children would not be like those, sorry for my word but this is true, most screwed up kids. And maybe, you might guide your children so they would not experience the way you did. Never stop believing in love.

i feel the same way too

I'm pretty sure everyone in this world hates "Love". Love these days is evil and selfish, and rude.

But true love (which I blindly believe in) isn't like that. Or at least that's what I hope. True love could never hurt anybody, it's real and faithful and kind. It's what bring the little light in the this world. And I'm not even talking about romantic love, any TRUE LOVE is good love.

What you are experiencing isn't love. When you feel love, you'll know it will never hurt you.

u are right bro destroy everything only beautiful between husband and her wife is bad between boys and girls...i can tell every one ,i love you like my brothers and sisters ........beleive me u are good boy .u are strong..dont let any girl and boy hurt you...dont show anyone that you you are weak cause they will be is woderful ...........u are strong..........

there is no reason to hate love HATE is a big word and well you will never get anywhere with hate trust me you are young and well have a whole life ahead of you be yourself be happy just because that girl didnt ask you out then its her lost and that boy who is a jerk his karma will come you need to keep your head up and live life to the fullest..just because you are poor?that is no reason i am poor as well and well guess what i dont feel poor why? because i got my mom my sister my health even tho i am no so great n health myself but at lest i can walk around cook and everything i mean there are kids out there that have cancer that cant walk that cant do nothing all they can do it watch the world form a hospital window, but you do you have any of that? i mean this kid would just love to even have a chance to explore the word and love whom they please they would like an "illusion" at keep your head up

**** love? No. **** the person who made you think that.

I'm a cynical ***** about love and intimacy and sanity and the world in general. But, kid, you need to lighten up. "hating love" for some chicas and chicos who brush aside the good guys to find the ******** and ******* is pointless. Don't be spiteful and hateful because of them. Forgive them, not for them, but for yourself. You will find someone who laughs with you and cries with you and stays with you when you need it most. and when it does happen you will look back on this and think "how could I ever have felt like this when I had this great person who was going to come into (or was already in) my life?"

Ohhhh u will be fine but that is how i feel when i cant find love but jerks can

Hey dnt think like that, you just haven't met the right girl yet. I know it doesn't seem like that but it's true. Love is real you just have to find it

Love is a privilege that you get and you shouldn't let it go. If those relationships didn't work out it's because you haven't met the right person, but he or she is out there and don't worry about finding him/her give it some time and later on they will end up finding you. Don't give up on love because its not love's fault. Our lives have been planned out for us even before we were born and don't let your self-esteem be affected because it's their fault for not noticing what a good person they are hurting. And how are we going to make the world a better place without having love in our lives? Love is a key to open doors, you just have to find the right door. After, that the road will be bumpy, but try your best not to fall. If you do someone will be looking out for you and will help you back onto your feet.

i dont mind wot u think.
its up to u
no judgement
have fun!

You'r 100% right.


Oh my f*ckiing god dude, suck it up and please dont say you "hate" love you oviously dont know or at least have never experienced REAL love. I mean you, in your own story, showed that you think love is about stupid school dating and CRUSHES otice how i said CRUSHES you freaking idiot kids. CRUSHES not love dont mistake the two, maybe youve never had a good example to work of off. But please dont say you hate love when so many else are actually dealing with LOVE and not stupid crushes and highschool dating. Most of these members are still in high school or middle school. Guys dont act like you could ever know or understand whaty true love is and dont think just because she/he gave yu a smile and you think hes "sooo hawt" that you are in love. ITS A CRUSH. HORMONES. get over it and dont you dare go around bad talking something you have no even vague idea of yet lol, although this did give me a good laugh.

Sorry for what you have been through. I experience times when I do not like love but I would say do not give up on it! I know I am not giving up on it, love is real and it does exist, do not let it go.

Sorry but I don't agree. Love exists, it's just become harder to find...

dont give up just yet, love is out theire

for me, love is not just for my boyfriend or my husband (in future, cz i'm single now).. i don't even know about love like that, because honestly i haven't been in love with someone before. but i believe that love is very important and beautiful .. my family love me, my best friends love me, nd i'm sure that God loves me abundantly.. that's enough for me to loving others.. good luck, i wish the best for u.. :)

lol you're 17. That should say it all.

One day you will know the difference between real love, hate, joy, despair, etc and what simply makes you have a hissy fit when you're a bratty teenager. Then you will yearn for the days when you THOUGHT you knew it all. Good luck with that "growing up" stuff :)

I care, Its important **** you too This touched me alone with how many others ... But if you wnat me to ignore you and call you scum fine whatever tickles your **** ..

I've gotta say, what you're explaining right here isn't even close to love. That is a crush and disappointment...You don't date someone because you love them, you date someone to get to know them and to fall in love with them. You MARRY someone you love, not before. I dated by fiance for several months before we even said "I love you", before that we had liked each other very strongly and decided to peruse more.

Oh my f*ckiing god dude, suck it up and please dont say you "hate" love you oviously dont know or at least have never experienced REAL love. I mean you, in your own story, showed that you think love is about stupid school dating and CRUSHES otice how i said CRUSHES you freaking idiot kids. CRUSHES not love dont mistake the two, maybe youve never had a good example to work of off. But please dont say you hate love when so many else are actually dealing with LOVE and not stupid crushes and highschool dating. Most of these members are still in high school or middle school. Guys dont act like you could ever know or understand whaty true love is and dont think just because she/he gave yu a smile and you think hes "sooo hawt" that you are in love. ITS A CRUSH. HORMONES. get over it and dont you dare go around bad talking something you have no even vague idea of yet lol, although this did give me a good laugh.

love can suck, but it can also be great.... hang in there, i know that sounds trite, but when you are older you may understand... the point to life is to never give up, and you may find love one day... until then just love yourself, your friends, your family.....

I think it's best to let love come to you, to not search for it so much as let what happens, because for all you know you might find the perfect someone in the most unexpected place ever. Just be nice to them and you'll eventually find that true someone :)

I think all the people that you're looking for love with are all the wrong people. Love's supposed to come to you, not the other way around. All you have to do is wait and I'm sure the girl of your dreams will come to you. :)

In the mean time, be careful who you look at, your future girlfriend might not like if you meet while you're checking our some other girl.


Awwww,I'm sorry!Let me tell you one thing,if you are not rude OR ugly then they're missing out,they don't understand YOU,& they are mestup thinking just leaving you is okay.That girl that went with the jerk is stupid & you can even tell her that I said that cause girls like that aren't worth it,& if he's a jerk then she's gonna get heart ache from that jerk,don't worry,some day a smart girl who knows what's up is ganna go with you instead of some peice of **** of a jerk :-D

Its not right how some people are a$$holes. I was poor my hole life until I got adopted. You will have plenty of $ one day u just gotta work hard do what u good at. I don't know anything about real love cause ppl ignore me. I don't exist to them so I know how it feels. Next time ask her before she asks someone else maybe idk it might work.

I so agree 'love' is a ******* joke. in the words of bright eyes "I wanna lover I dont have to love".

i think people have messed up the idea of what love is in our world.

i agree, it does make me sick to, but soon your love will come to you, she's out there, your just not looking hard enough, she's kinda like a star, there's millions an millions and millions of them out there,and that perrrrfect star, but you haven't seen that star yet,

In my opinion I think that love is something that should stay as an admiration; a dream as once two people starts to be with each other the destruction of their love starts, only few couples stay together until they die. Love can be painful and never perfect, well nothing in this world is perfect anyway. But if you fear that pain you'll never be able to grasp what you seek which in your case should be a soulmate. Even if you get rid of this fear of getting hurt, after you get together you must overcome it again and again. Love and hate are two very powerful words just so you know. If you have something you love there will be something you hate. But if you use hate on love it just means that you are running away because you don't want to get hurt. Oh, and asking people to **** off won't change a thing. The whole world's population will not give a damn about you as everyone is just oblivious to whatever is happening outside of their circle of people they know, your just wasting time and energy to vent your anger and frustration on them. And I know most rich people only care about wealth, fame and power but there are people who actually work their way up to their position by just being hard working. Some rich people's children may look down on people because their poor but that just means that they take everything for granted, which means that you know more than them, you know how to save up money, not waste food and not be picky about almost everything. Their oblivious to almost everything except money, fame and their position in the high social places while you are not and know more than those three things. I'm sorry if I said anything horrible or if I'm too blunt

It's painful, yes. It almost never works out right, yeah. It's risky and dangerous to open your heart to love someone, yes. It can make you more miserable than you've ever felt, yup. It does seem that love isn't worth it at all. It's cruel, and designed to test you in the most brutal ways imaginable. But that's what makes true love so beautiful. Yes, unless you're insanely beautiful, you'll always think:" I'll never find anyone, I'm not good enough." And every time you get a small chance, it works out in the worst imaginable way. Love is the most cruel god, it will always test your faith in it, no matter how many times you've proven yourself worthy. I'm sorry that your love life hasn't worked out the way you want it to so far, but you're not the only who gets this hurt by love. Now, forgive me if I sound rude, but before you quit, spare a thought for your soulmate who's out there waiting for you. Unfortunately for him, he'll never get to meet you because you gave up. And don't even think he doesn't exist, 7 billion people in this world, your guess is as good as mine. If you don't believe in it, you deny yourself all possibility that you'll ever find it.

Seriously. Just STOP. Your negative and have low self esteem. You ll grow out of that hopefully. Telling the whole world to F off isnt going to WIPE LOVE off the EArth. As a Alien we love Human beings because we could always tell the ones who loved eachother. So be thankful you have the choice to choose love or hate; both powerful. I am poor and my alien wife is HOT!! So umm/. I love you for trying to ask for help Now except it!

If you have the need to say you "hate" such a powerful word as hate to love? Then you dont know what it is. And i understand youre not too young for it, but you've only had a few tries at it. Im not saying that age or maturity or even wealth has anything to do with it, but you cant just brandish something like the word "hate" and use it so unknowingly against a thing like love until you have felt it before. And even if you havent you should be happy that others have and enjoy that yours will come eventually. Im not saying your age has something to do with you not knowing what it is but im saying that because you are your age that it is all the more likely that even if you are looking for it, anyone else your age will also be looking for it. Dont give up hope man.

The worse thing you can do is let people into yo heart. Let ur guard down for a second and they will only trample it. Best thing to do is to go so far and then stop. set up a barrier to protect yourself cause the majority don't care bout your feelings only their own.

I have low self esteem.. and bad luck ^^ so kind of give up on love.. but im still waiting for that day when love will bring me happiness.. :D

so for now i think i agree with you

Thank but if love comes to me I push it back

AGH, I've been where you are now. It sucks, but trust me, it gets better. You'll find someone that truly loves you for you and that person will never leave. Sure there'll be ups and downs, but that's what comes with love and you just have to get through it. Trust me, it's worth the wait to find the one you love and that will love you back. No matter how painful. But if you ever need someone to talk to, you can always talk to me

I will never find someone

You don't know that yet. You're still young and even if you take love seriously, most people our age do not. To them it's a game, and that game has a price that is too high for them to understand. When both you and they get older, they will mature and realize that the "game" they played, was much more than they realized. It's gonna make them regret the relationship they thought they had because they can now see that it was superficial, it had no love. People our age don't think about who they hurt because to them, love is a game, a fantasy that can always fix itself even if it means hurting another. Love takes time and it takes patients. It seems hard, especially in this day and age where actual love is so hard to come by, but when they finally learn to grow up, they'll see their errors when you've seen it from the very beginning

Love is a beautiful thing. It's painful, but it's worth it. You will find the right person for you one day. Or more importantly, you can love your family and friends. There is love all around you, but you're just too upset now to see it. I'm sure one day you'll find your soulmate. :)

Look that's what I thought too but it won't happen to me I will burn love. Sorry

You have soooo much time to find someone. Don't worry about it now, and don't give up!

I give up sorry