I Hate Men Who Abuse Women

The Weenie Roast

By: romanticdreams

Written on October 18th, 2011

I have been a member of EP now, for about 60 days, have made some wonderful friends and of course, met a few others. As I talk to people it amazes me how much abuse has taken place, men hurting their wives. This can be done is so many different ways, can never understand a guy that simply neglects his wife, does not want to hold her, hug her, spend time with her, that is a form of abuse, just in another way. Then there is the blatant stuff, where guys verbally tear them down, tell them they cruel and mean things. Well, I have an idea, let's get all these loosers together and have a big bbq, what would be on the menu, well, we can have some great potato salad, I make a great one, then some bbq beans, homemade of course, and for the main course, all these ladies should have the opportunity to whack off their mans weenie, put it on the bbq and cook it to perfection. Just a thought. Men, if you haven't hugged your wife today, think today would be a great day to make a change while you still can

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By: romanticdreams

Age: 46-50 , Male

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45 responses

officesusan

Could we add some EP guys that get abusive and then get worse when you say you won't add them because they didn't read your story.

Buy the way you have a good name you sound so romantic you have got to be a dream. Sure your not a girl?

May 28, 2012
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- romanticdreams
  Thanks for commenting, definitely a guy, lol. Have a great day
  
  May 28, 2012
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sanasafinaz

Very thoughtful & considerate post.I have been on ep for almost one and a half year now, but I haven't come across such a careful post. Thanks for bringing every male attention to this.

deeply thankful.

Feb 12, 2012
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- romanticdreams
  Thank you Amrose, glad you enjoyed it
  
  Feb 12, 2012
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ready444

Sir, you are the kind of man I always wished to be. My wife and I had our share of 'fights'. A few times I slept on the couch. I know a lot times I felt hurt mentally, as I'm sure she did too. We deeply loved each other, never failed to make up after a fight. We both admitted our shame for the things we said to each other. We were married for over 43 years, raised 3 children, and shared a wonderful life together. She died in '06. As I look back at our lives, I can see how much we really cared for each other. If you look at my profile, you'll see that I'm not a 'nice' guy in a LOT of ways. But I am an old romantic who was brought up to fear God and treat others as I would want to be treated. My dad always told me that it was NOT RIGHT to hit a woman. And I can only remember twice doing so when I was growing up. My sis and I exchanged a couple of slaps when we were young. I did hit a girl that was about my age, 3, when she took my toys and hit me with one of them! LOL. The girl's mother was watching thru the window and told me to do it again if Kay was mistreating me.

I have seen a lot of abusive men AND WOMEN in my 69 years of living. Uncles, cousins, aunts, neighbors, and strangers. It is so disturbing. My wife and I had the usual disagreements and always got over them. She spent 2 days and nights with her mother during one argument, and I spent one night in a motel (BY MYSELF) instead of staying at home and 'fussin' and fightin'.

I've read several of your stories. AFTER you see my stories, comments, etc., add me as a friend if you want to do so. If you feel otherwise, just let it go. I applaud you as a real 'gentleman'. There probably are others who fit this catagory, but not as nice as you are.

Jan 12, 2012
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- romanticdreams
  Thank you for sharing, really appreciate it
  
  Jan 12, 2012
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sweetsour

Is there anymore guys like you out there? Or r u a dying breed? I hope not. I'm in an abusive marriage. And everyday I will think of ways to get rid of him : poison, burn him while he's sleeping, the idea goes on.... LOLs. But i don't have the guts to do it....

Nov 22, 2011
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- romanticdreams
  So sorry to hear about your marriage and even more about abuse. Thanks for shring your comments, am not a dying breed, think there are guys out here that care. Thank you so much for sharing and my hopes are that someway, you will get out of this situation. This story was a way to bring awareness to a very serious topic
  
  Nov 22, 2011
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MsOracle

We need a lot more "MEN" like you a Man's Man not the little jerk offs that will never know the pleasures of being a man , sadly there seems too many boys out there and it's so refreshing to meet a man like you , decent and caring and protective, that's a "MAN" Thank you !

Oct 20, 2011
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- romanticdreams
  There are alot of boys out here, you are right, but also some great guys, have talked with several, thanks again foryour comments Nahdi, you are a sweetie
  
  Oct 20, 2011
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KLC2

I don't think the losers deserve to have their weenies eatten. A bonfire of the Vanities will do! No one more than abusers deserve to be lonilier. All the abusers need to be matched with their likeness that way they can experience War of the Roses. People need to realize their own self worth and pride and walk away from the abuse. It can be done and there is places and people who can help if the losers keep coming after you. JUST WALK AWAY AND DON"T LOOK BACK!

Oct 20, 2011
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- romanticdreams
  Well said, thanks for sharing your thoughts, you always have some great ideas
  
  Oct 20, 2011
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thewingedone

O,M.G, i havn't laughed so hard in years!,(The name Bobbit springs to mind here)

and what if there's any vegetarians present?,

Will this mass dissection be by appointment only,?

or will there be an "at will" choice?...because some audience members may be quite

squeamish!

well thats one way of dealing with many forms of abuse i guess, (my ribs are still aching from laughing),however i dealt with my form of abuse

by way of the law, was the only way i felt i could at the time, just goes to show persistence and determination pays off in the end.

best wishes karen

Oct 19, 2011
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- romanticdreams
  Winged one, glad I could make you laugh, you are quite right that some will be "Sqeamish" For those who are vegans, we can provide special food, obviously not what is no the grill, lol but some other items. Thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts, loved your story once again, very well written
  
  Oct 19, 2011
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- thewingedone
  believe me i need to laugh some more, so funny though,i felt, and i can see by the response you have on this topic that many people would be only too pleased to participate!,or would like to think that they would but in reality well?..
  thank you once again for reading my story...i will have to get some more writing done,i do enjoy it a lot.
  
  Oct 20, 2011
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- thewingedone
  thanks for your likes, appreciate that
  .karen
  
  Nov 10, 2011
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Serenitree

To heck with it, lets throw the whole hog on the BBQ, why just the weenie? Whacking off the weenie, just leaves a weenie free pig. But the pig still walks the earth. Free to be just as nasty as ever. With one more thing to be angry about. Nope, I say BBQ the whole hog, and be done with it. I'll bring the veggies and my homemade dip. We can have a huge luau. Sing and dance and laugh.

Oct 19, 2011
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- romanticdreams
  Sounds like a plan grantmepeace, like the way you think, will keep you posted on the date, lol. Thanks for sharing and taking time to give your feedback. By the way, nice avatar, love the muppets
  
  Oct 19, 2011
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- Serenitree
  Date and location. Woohoo, looking forward to a feast.
  
  Oct 19, 2011
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- romanticdreams
  Lol, will keep you posted grantme, look forward to meeting you, lol
  
  Oct 19, 2011
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notvisable

I have my own phrase for what you are describing : "Being held emotionally Hostage". I hate that feeling, but I feel it EVERY day ! hugs & best of luck to you !

Suzy

Oct 19, 2011
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- romanticdreams
  Thank you Suzy for your comments, that is an excellent phrase, so sad, it's sad that so much of this is happening. Hope the best for you Suzy, thanks again
  
  Oct 19, 2011
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1sweetloralei

Love it!! I will bring chocolate cake:-)

Oct 18, 2011
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- romanticdreams
  That will go well with the rest of the meal, thanks my friend, glad you liked the post. It amazes me how much of this is going on, some men need to grow up and be men
  
  Oct 18, 2011
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teri58

Thanks for the support of soo many of us who have and are living through abuse from our spouses. Your justice sounds very rewarding for all the pain these men have caused us women. The world would really be shocked to see how much of these goes on behind closed doors. I have never told any of my co-workers or friends of the abuse I have suffered through the years. The only ones who ever knew were my parents and the police who would preferred to escort me out of the house then to do something with him, until he pushed it too far and left me with bruises from head to toe, knots on my head and broken ribs. They couldn't blow me off that time and they had to actually do their job and arrest him. I know of some women who were not so lucky, it didn't stop until the day they got beat to death. Justice for us women I love it!!!!!

Oct 18, 2011
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- romanticdreams
  Thank you for sharing Terrie, you are a survivor and it hurts when I hear about all of this. I have been shocked on how much it occurs, many people have shared with me on EP, some have been men, it's difficult. I was aware it was an issue but not to this degree. Thanks for your comments, we will save you a place at the bbq
  
  Oct 18, 2011
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Mel520

What a terrific idea! Where can I sign up to bring my boyfriend? He is a giant ******* and I think that might be the only way to get him out of my life!

I sit here with 2 black eyes and a concussion while 12 weeks pregnant and at lunch today he kicked me repeatedly in the back and legs and hit me in the back of the head again so as not to leave anymore marks on my face. And all because he didn't like my shirt (which a nun would have proudly worn).

A roast sounds absolutely delightful!

Oct 18, 2011
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- romanticdreams
  Am so sorry for you Mel, we will make sure he is the first in line, will give you the date and location once it is set, lol. THanks for sharing, this was a huorous way for me to express my anger on this subject, thanks for being so transparent
  
  Oct 18, 2011
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- sweetsour
  It happened to me when i was pregnant with my 4th child. He hit me in my right eye and the glasses i wore broke and got stuck right in my eye missing the black iris. and another shard hit the top eyelid. When i fall he hit me again and again. I didn't realise till i saw blood dripping on the floor. I was horrified and ran to the mirror and was shocked at what i saw, thinking : will i go blind? How could he do this to me???? God protected me, the glass in the eye popped out but i didnt get help for the cuts cos i didnt want to get him into trouble. How stupid of me.....
  
  Nov 22, 2011
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Fluttershy12

It's a shame that men abuse women....abusers should have more done to them, than what you wrote, but it was funny.

Oct 18, 2011
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- romanticdreams
  Thank you Flutter, glad you agree and I agree with your thoughts as it should be worse. Hope you have a wonderful evening and thanks for stopping by and commenting
  
  Oct 18, 2011
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ItsWindy

LOL I would never have taken my late husband, Russ to your BBQ! However .... I do have an ex who still lurks around. Only one problem that I can foresee. I will not eat his roasted weenie, no, not even with relish! Sounds like a great party to have!

Oct 18, 2011
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- romanticdreams
  Glad I could make you laugh Windy. Understand about your ex, am sure we can find a few stray dogs around that may eat it, lol! Will keep you posted on the date and location, lol.
  
  Oct 18, 2011
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surrealreality

Haha! Yeah! Let's have a winnie roast!

I'll bring the chips, Salsa, and homemade Guacamole.

Oct 18, 2011
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- romanticdreams
  Sounds great, love homemade guacamole, will be a fun party, well, maybe not for everyone, lol! Thanks for your feedback
  
  Oct 18, 2011
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reallygoodperson

Great post. ...really luv it. You are such a kind and gentle soul....any woman would be lucky to have you. Sending you lots of hugs for this one!!! <3

Oct 18, 2011
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- romanticdreams
  Thank you my friend, thanks for your encouragement and friendship
  
  Oct 18, 2011
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Carissimi

Great idea! Probably the only way I would get to eat one again. Lol

Oct 18, 2011
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- romanticdreams
  We will get the bbq good and hot for him Carissimi, thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts
  
  Oct 18, 2011
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- Carissimi
  Seriously though, thank you for writing this. It is very thoughtful and understanding of you to care about an issue that brings so much distress to many.
  
  Oct 18, 2011
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- romanticdreams
  You are welcome, hope it makes people think about how their words and actions can hurt others. Thank you for your input, so appreciate it
  
  Oct 19, 2011
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Leporid

Castration and canablism.

Humm.

Oct 18, 2011
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- romanticdreams
  Well, it is a "tasteful" way of dealing with the situation
  
  Oct 18, 2011
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sexxydiva

I agree tell me what to bring...:-)

Oct 18, 2011
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- romanticdreams
  Will do that Diva, thanks for your comments and feedback, always love them
  
  Oct 18, 2011
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