What i dont understand is why some men think its ok to abuse woman in anyway? Does it make them feel stronger? More of a man? Its not the way to go especially the woman who doesnt have a voice. I know there are some aggressive fiesty woman out there also, but regardless no woman should be going through such attacks. I mean can you see yourself coming home from a hard days work/school whatever the case is to a hot headed raging bull guy whos ready to punch your lights out? NO WAY!!!!! the first attempt is the last attempt thats the BOTTOM LINE!...sadly i've seen woman on and off with bruises, tears and hopelessness and it makes me sick to my stomach knowing what they been through. Other times some woman knows the deal and keep mouths shut and stays with their lover, boyfriend whatever, its like i wish i can just pull them away and tell them to GET OUT NOW!..yet its not that easy for some which is the part that you cant control its all up to them to find help or stay.