Yes and No?
I was raised to hate the action not the person.
But somehow when it comes to abuse, whether a woman or man or child and even animals, I do hate the abuser.
I know abusers come in all shapes, sizes and yes both sexes. What they do is vile and despicable.
Abuse can be verbal and physical. But it still is degrading for all. Leaving scars on their victim and others for a lifetime.
So yes and no for me. Trying to overcome what my Mother taught me is not easy, but I think it is true in this case.