She Thinks She Is Better

I have been best friends with her since sixth grade,I was always the ditzy one and she took over the leader role in our friendship.She never let me date guys she did not like and has always told me that any decision I make is the wrong one.Now that we are older,she still thinks that I am wrong all the time and that she is perfect.Her kids are better than mine, she makes more money,she attends church more,makes less mistakes,and her life is just better.She scolds me for going out with my friends occasinally and tells me to stop sleeping with my boyfriend cuz we are not married(She is still with her first guy). I love her, i would not say I hate her,But she really ****** me off sometimes.
blackcat blackcat
22-25, F
3 Responses May 29, 2007

HEy people out there. I just made a new friends and they are twins.The one thinks that i hit her sister but i pockered her. Can pocking leave bruses???? Makes no sence to me

i know how you feel. i met my bestfriends in year 7. we have been good friends since then. we've went through all the drama of puberty and everything.<br />
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but one of my bestfriend can never stop degrading me. she's always so condescending. she also makes a big deal out of everything. whenever a guy so much as look at her, she goes "do you think he likes me?" and i never know what to say because obviously they dont.<br />
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she's fun and we can talk about others but we never actually talk. sometimes i feel she hates me. its so annoying. but if i just stop talking to her, i will feel like im wasting our 7 years friendship for nothing.

oh wow, i know how you feel. I don't think i'm as old as you, i have been best friends with my friend since 7th grade. She thinks she is always right and i am always wrong. whenever something goes wrong it's my fault. It's like i can never please her, i'm never good enough. and it's really starting to wear down my self esteem(i didn't have much in the first place). i don't know if she does it on purpose or not. i used to wish she wouldn't want to be my friend any more but when we get in fights like that i get scared and quickly apologize because i don't want to lose her???<br />
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my emotions confuse me