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Jekyll and Hyde

When I met my ex-boyfriend, I wasn't looking for a relationship. But we had the same interests and started hanging out more. After a few months, he told me he was in love with me and wanted to marry me. He even promised my Dad he would take care of me and support me for the rest of my life. We moved in together and were happy for the next few months. We even bought a puggle together, who I miss more than anything. He kept the dog and I will probably not be able to see it again :(  Even though I was the one who fed it and walked it every day while we were together.
Fast forward to November. His mother has family in another state, so I decided to be a good girlfriend and go with them for an early Thanksgiving. On our last day there, we went out to a bar for some fun. I really didn't want to drink, but I had some beer to be a good sport. Later that night, my ex and I had a disagreement. Not a fight, a disagreement. However, his mom overheard us and called the police on me, claiming that I was being loud and belligerent and aggressive towards her son. He only stood there helplessly as the police came, believed the bull story and hauled me off to jail for public intoxication. What a load of crap!! Not only did I have to stay a whole day in jail, all of them went home and left me stranded in a state where I knew no one. Who does that to someone? If he really loved me, wouldn't he stay and find me a way home and not be his mother's ***** by listening to her and going back without me? Who leaves someone in jail like that?
Needless to say, I picked up my stuff and moved out as soon as I could. He never apologized for anything and hasn't answered my calls or emails since. The one bit of satisfaction I got out of this came yesterday. I went to my court date and found out that if I paid basic court costs, the charges would be dismissed...no fines, no probation, no criminal record, nothing! I knew justice would be served!
As for that *******, I don't want anything to do with him. Here's his basic information so that everyone can steer clear: James Adkins Jr.  Lives in Fairborn, OH  He's 24 and you'll probably see him hanging by himself at karaoke bars. Pathetic!  At least I am now rid of him and can start over. I got a great new job in my new town and I feel better and stronger.
kaspur26 kaspur26 26-30, F 11 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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At least you managed to get away. I've fallen pregnant to my creepy bf (ex) and he's threatened to kill me if i have an abortion. He's ruined me financially (im likely to lose my apartment as a result - which only had $50,000 owing on it) and physically - i feel ive aged more in the last two years than i had in the decade prior. He's just a loser loner, depressed and living some creepy relationship with his folks. No credit rating, nor assets at age 36. So i was just the perfect target for him. I wish i hadn''t been so naive when i met him, i would have run in the opposite direction. What can i do now? Im 14 weeks pregnant (he's also told everyone, including my work colleagues), scared of him and feeling utterly hopeless. I called the cops on him too (for physical violence and verbal intimidation) and they believed him - he really is like Jekyl and Hyde. So im trapped and more miserable than i have ever been. Thank God you managed to get away.

At least you managed to get away. I've fallen pregnant to my creepy bf (ex) and he's threatened to kill me if i have an abortion. He's ruined me financially (im likely to lose my apartment as a result - which only had $50,000 owing on it) and physically - i feel ive aged more in the last two years than i had in the decade prior. He's just a loser loner, depressed and living some creepy relationship with his folks. No credit rating, nor assets at age 36. So i was just the perfect target for him. I wish i hadn''t been so naive when i met him, i would have run in the opposite direction. What can i do now? Im 14 weeks pregnant (he's also told everyone, including my work colleagues), scared of him and feeling utterly hopeless. I called the cops on him too (for physical violence and verbal intimidation) and they believed him - he really is like Jekyl and Hyde. So im trapped and more miserable than i have ever been. Thank God you managed to get away.

At least you managed to get away. I've fallen pregnant to my creepy bf (ex) and he's threatened to kill me if i have an abortion. He's ruined me financially (im likely to lose my apartment as a result - which only had $50,000 owing on it) and physically - i feel ive aged more in the last two years than i had in the decade prior. He's just a loser loner, depressed and living some creepy relationship with his folks. No credit rating, nor assets at age 36. So i was just the perfect target for him. I wish i hadn''t been so naive when i met him, i would have run in the opposite direction. What can i do now? Im 14 weeks pregnant (he's also told everyone, including my work colleagues), scared of him and feeling utterly hopeless. I called the cops on him too (for physical violence and verbal intimidation) and they believed him - he really is like Jekyl and Hyde. So im trapped and more miserable than i have ever been. Thank God you managed to get away.

At least you managed to get away. I've fallen pregnant to my creepy bf (ex) and he's threatened to kill me if i have an abortion. He's ruined me financially (im likely to lose my apartment as a result - which only had $50,000 owing on it) and physically - i feel ive aged more in the last two years than i had in the decade prior. He's just a loser loner, depressed and living some creepy relationship with his folks. No credit rating, nor assets at age 36. So i was just the perfect target for him. I wish i hadn''t been so naive when i met him, i would have run in the opposite direction. What can i do now? Im 14 weeks pregnant (he's also told everyone, including my work colleagues), scared of him and feeling utterly hopeless. I called the cops on him too (for physical violence and verbal intimidation) and they believed him - he really is like Jekyl and Hyde. So im trapped and more miserable than i have ever been. Thank God you managed to get away.

I LOVE YOU, GIRL! And I like how you looked out for your sistahs by giving us his name and general description! You rock!

good for you get rid of that loser! My baby daddy is a momma's boy wanted me to marry him right away kinda guy too. now i see why, he can't take care of himself! him and his crazy momma have caused me a bit of drama too, now i just don't answer her calls and tell her to mind her own business. and i refuse to stay at their house for holiday's! he can go see her whenever he wants, I tell him, but he's not taking my car to do it and she is not staying with us.

I had to go to jail for a day because i blew a .02 in Washington, but because I was only 20 at the time, 4 days short of being 21, I got an MIP. Almost a year later, when I actually served my time, I was with this guy. Because you can't call cell phones from jail, I collect called my mom to call my boyfriend to tell him what time to pick me up. He was 4 hours late. It was December, cold and snowing outside. I wasn't able to wait inside the jail so I sat out in the cold waiting for him. He wouldn't answer his cell phone and claimed he never got the call from my mom. Want to know the worst part about it? I stayed with him. At leased you got away.

wow he is a loser and its great you were able to turns things around for the better...

omg!!! something similar happen to me lord but my still bf call the police on me!!! hahah it was so stupid we both drunk got in to a fight and by hem getting upset at me and try to meke me more angry he call them and hung up but they call him back and F(*&&? they just show upm at our place and bcuz i was smash they tuck me to jail ME!!! **** but he's family was angry at both of us cuz we are on our 30's to behave like this but they never leave me alone or him.

Big big mistake but your ex was such an ******* omg leave you alone in a cell!!!! **** him!

You're in your 30?!

what a s**ker. good for u that he is out of your life

It's nice to see you're getting through it quite fast. Keep it going. He's a jerk!