Seasonal :(

My boyfriend and I have been off and on going on four years. It's like a cycle we go threw the same problems the same time of the year every year. I have remained faithful even at times of separation but he does him! All the time together or not. I want to leave him but everytime I try I get stuck I love him I see us together forever but I hate him because he can never give me 100%. When I want to leave he goes on saying how without me he isn't a good person and doesn't make the right decisions ( which is true) but why should that cause me my life. I would hate to leave him and watch him make the same mistakes as his parents and siblings but I need love to I need attention and I am not going to get from him till summer is over... I'm in a year round relationship he is in a seasonal!
Whitetoy07 Whitetoy07
18-21, F
3 Responses Jul 23, 2010

sounds like he wants a part time relationship sweetheart. he just wants the security of a relationship with the perks of being single. move on. you gave him plenty of opportunities to change

Manipulating you into saving him.... nice. Has he ever said "Stay with me and I will prove through actions that it's the right decision for you", or anytihng to that effect?

Manipulating you into saving him.... nice. Has he ever said "Stay with me and I will prove through actions that it's the right decision for you", or anytihng to that effect?