I Hate Him

in my relationship, i never get a say.  He says that i will never be able to tell him what to do, and that he is going to do whatever he wants regardless of me.  He speaks disrespectfully to me, and makes me out to be some garbage.  Yet at night he will whisper in my ear, how much "he supposedly loves me".  But i don't know how to let go.  I have gotten to the point where i hate him, and i want to hurt him emotionally just as bad as he is hurting me.

rrmartinez rrmartinez
2 Responses Jan 13, 2009

This sounds very familiar to me too...he loves you after good sex and when he wants a naked body by him in bed? but treats you like hell otherwise...I too wish my boyfriend would suffffferrrr..and I want to witness it! Sorry your hurting..you should leave him if you can...there has to be better men out there.

,just show him how strong you are and leave him even if you have to pretend. It is your life and I know it is easy for me to say and your situation is probably more complicated but you need to get out.I looked at your pictures and God has made you so beautiful.Don't let that punk destroy you.you need to be strong