Can't Take It Anymore

I'm really starting to hate my boyfriend,he doesn't really do anything as far as making me feel bad or cheating on me far as I know, but every single weekend that we have off from work he doesn't want to do anything at all I mean NOTHING!! All he wants to do is sleep all day literally. I'll ask him in advance are we gonna do something this weekend and he's says yes then the weekend come and here we are sitting in the house. I don't have a car and I don't know anyone else but him, it's just getting so annoying I really can't take it anymore because i just refuse to live the rest of my life like this stuck in the house every single weekend. He Tell's me I'm being selfish and I only think about myself,but I don't think I am. It's not like I want to do something all the time but once in a while it would be nice. It was a fight just to get him up and take me out on my B-day! I know that's probably a dumb reason to start hating him, but i just can't help it.

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3 Responses Mar 22, 2009

mine is the same way. says hes just too tired to do anything, but he seems to muster up the energy to go to the bar when he feels like it later that night....

That's a dumb reason at all?? You are unhappy and bored with life...that is a valid ***** to have. You sound as though you are very different and not compatible at all. You should really think about breaking up with him.

I would hate him too. The only feesible excuse for his behavior is clinical depression. Other than that it sounds to me like you are wasting your life with him. If you want to see what is out there check out match . com If you see anyone decent join and then you will be busy on the weekends for sure!