So I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 6 months. I'm in my teens and stuff, so this might seem juvenile to some people, I don't know. It's nowhere near as serious as some of the stories on this site. Some ex-girlfriends are evil. But this girl really upsets me.
When we first started going out, I'd arranged to go away for 3 weeks so obviously I went, and while I was gone, I knew he was invited to his ex-girlfriend (who has the same name as me *facepalm*)'s 18th birthday. I didn't really mind cause I've never been naturally jealous. Until I heard what happened. Apparently her best friend got hammered, told him that his ex-girlfriend wanted him back, that he should dump me because I'm ugly or whatever and tried to kiss him.
Needless to say I was pissed. But I got over it, because as I said, I'm not jealous I just thought "stupid girls". So then I went to his debs, and she just glared me out of it for the whole night, basically making me feel like an outsider because she knows all his friends so well.
Then they went for drinks together, and afterwards went shopping together, all her idea. Recently, she asked him out for drinks (a load of people were going but obviously I can't cos I'm underage) and he didn't go. So she left him a text going "awwh why didn't you go?" and he didn't even say it's cos he'd arranged to go to the cinema with me, because he needed to save money for xmas apparently. Then today, which is why I'm writing it, she asked him to go to the gym with her.
I'm just completely exasperated to be honest. I know she wants me to react badly so that he'll dump me or something so I'm not reacting, but it's eating me up inside. So now I've vented, I feel a bit better, but I really wish he wasn't going gym with her and her other friend tonight, but I'm not exactly sure how to say "I don't want you to," and still not come across as a *****.