As a 19 almost 20 year old mother to a beautiful little girl. I could never imagine myself saying I dislike or hate my daughter. You people should be ashamed. when I was growing up I used to lash out, back talk, cut, be disrespectful to my mother but not once did she take her frustration out on me or tell me that she hated me or dislike me. So if you say that I dont have the experience to say what I am saying. Yes I do. I was one of those kids. Amd for all those mothers saying its the kids fault. They get half their genes from you so what does that say about you. Try talking to your children getting them help or something. As a mother it is your job to teach your kids right from wrong, get them help when they need it whether they want it or not. You should not EVER give up on your children. I was a pill popper at the age of 14. My mom stopped at nothing to get me help when I didnt want it. I needed it but didnt want it. If you say cruel things to your kids then no they wont like you and will not respect you. And alot of you ladies do not deserve to be respected. I see in alot of stories you think everything is about you and once you have kids, yourself should not matter . Its selfish. If you hate your kids that much why didnt you give them up for adoption so a family without kids could love and cherish them the way they deserve. I hope God punishes each and every one of you for disrespecting your children and blaming them to be the problem when its probably the mother and the father who is to blame. I would never say the things you say about your children about.my daughter. She is.my precious gift and I work my *** off everyday to provide for her and ik she will not take that for granted because I will raise her better than that. So before you blame your child for something else you should think What can I do to help them and try to make them better. They only get one mother. Make it count.