Well..this Will Prolly Make Me Look Like A Bad Person, But I Dont Care.I do believe that the name of this group was probably chosen in haste. If someone truly hates their child, then there really is a problem in the relationship, with the child suffering the most.
I myself have never said i hate my child(ren). I love them too much to say it or even do it. However, i do realize that there are many adults who struggle with that sort of thing, and i imagine that feeling must be very isolating, simply because its not normal to feel that way. Who can you tell? Family members? Friends?? Its not that simple im sure, as the ones who are dealing with it are already low on support, which is prolly why they wrote it here. I also believe that launching into a person because they are struggling with this is a bit one sided. "Who could hate a child??.. Blasphemyyyy!" ... yep i get it, esp after reading the stories written here. Some people are just evil and hate filled. Parenting is the most difficult job in the world, and if a person already has issues, its that much harder.
But the vileness that we are ripping eachother apart with here just fuels more hatred. Not everyone in the world has the luxury of having an intact heart and mind. I suppose they should be pitied, but the real focus needs to be put on the kid, which none of us have access to, this being the internet and all.
I just really feel bad for this whole group. But i dunno that calling them despicable is gonna really help. Im sure they probably feel that way already.
I hope my friends that i respect here dont think any less of me for saying this, but its just my opinion in a sea of many.
*Hesitates on hitting Post..hits it anyway*