I find this group very disturbing. Hating your own flesh and blood? That's sad and vile. I've read a lot of your stories and from my perspective, you all have raised little monsters. It's not the child's fault. Children need attention and love, which you parents lack of and they need guidance which obviously was never gave to them. So now they've turned into little hellions and you all are just making up excuses for yourselves. It's pretty clear to see you're all not great parents, you obviously gave no effort to your child if they turned out the way you describe them. Also, coming on here and complaining about how much you hate them? That's very immature. You people are heartless. I am 20 years old with a 3 1/2 and 11 month old boys, no matter what I'll love them unconditionally and I want to raise them the right way. Seeing these stories inspires me to be a better mother, you people should be ashamed. Hating your own flesh and blood.. Sickening really. Maybe family counseling or a group on here about misbehaved children or I'm a terrible parent could help you! Kids are what they see. Sadly you didn't let them see good, obviously. I shall pray for you people, very hard. This is a messed up and heartless group.