breaking up is hard to do they say. The habit, the attraction, the togetherness, the phermones. All gone now to be replaced with loneliness, aching heart, desire to reach out but I know better. I can't take care of her now. I've gotta take care of ME. and I have so much to do! and no mind space to allow myself to do it. So I sit down and join this group and is that supposed to make me feel better?