I'm A 13 Year Old Girl And I Hate My Dad.

My dad is really horrible to me and my mom. He is constantly senseitive about the wrong things and never ever encourages me and always finds a way to put me or my mom down. There have been so many moments where I have wished he was dead. But frankly this is the last straw. I want to get emancipated (divorced from a parent/s) from my dad. The reason I feel like this is because I truly have no love for him anymore, and if he died right in front of me, to be honest I wouldn't bat an eyelid. He always blames me for things that he's done, solely because he is looking for someone to take his rage out on. I have actually tried to kill myself a numerous amount of times but I don't have the guts. I love my mom and will always love her. But my dad is just someone who I'd rather was out of my life forever. He has hit me several amount of times, and I really don't know what to do. I don't want to tell anyone because they might take me away from my mom and sister. Whenever my cousin is around he completely ignores me and shuts me out, which is worse then when we're alone. Can anyone help me get away from him...forever?
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1 Response Jun 18, 2011

I can relate to you in so many ways. I am a 13 year old girl as well. My father always takes his aggression out on me and blames me for everything. Hes rude to my mother calling her names. He always tells me to lose weight and to always be "perfect". Just this morning he made me cry. He makes me cry everyday. I don't think you can get away from him, unless you completely shut him out of your life. Such as, not talking to him when he's home, ignoring him, etc. I don't understand why he does these sort of things. Atleast I can relate to someone who has the sort of same situation as me. (you).