Hate Part 2

I will never be able to get this out of my head no matter how hard I try. My dad blames me for everything no matter what. He started yelling one day over I don't even know what and said "I am disowning you. I am going to take legal action to disown you. " over what? What did I do? How can a father hate a child so much, when that child has done nothing but try to be a good person to you her entire life.
alj817 alj817
22-25
2 Responses Dec 15, 2012

i have been disowned 3 times by my father. the last time in writing. i am now 48 and he is dying. he still tries to make me feel like i owe him. Im always wrong and no matter how polite i am to him, its not enough. I did move far away and refuse to visit or deal with anything face to face because of his bs. I wish i could say it gets better with time. its better with distance. i will be glad when i no longer have to deal with his crud . my mother has always turned a blind eye to it all. I can tell you there is one thing I clearly learned from my parents. that is what type of parent NOT to be. and that made all the difference in the world. I raised a wonderful, compassionate, caring man. So, know that you can learn a lesson from him. you learn how not to treat children. You will never get over not getting the kind of love all children deserve, it will always sting. but you will be a better person because of his hateful ways. wishing you much love and joy

i have been disowned 3 times by my father. the last time in writing. i am now 48 and he is dying. he still tries to make me feel like i owe him. Im always wrong and no matter how polite i am to him, its not enough. I did move far away and refuse to visit or deal with anything face to face because of his bs. I wish i could say it gets better with time. its better with distance. i will be glad when i no longer have to deal with his crud . my mother has always turned a blind eye to it all. I can tell you there is one thing I clearly learned from my parents. that is what type of parent NOT to be. and that made all the difference in the world. I raised a wonderful, compassionate, caring man. So, know that you can learn a lesson from him. you learn how not to treat children. You will never get over not getting the kind of love all children deserve, it will always sting. but you will be a better person because of his hateful ways. wishing you much love and joy