Makes Me Sick
My daughter has been dating her boyfriend for two years and I'm now to the point of every time I hear or see him it makes me sick. I thought that she would get tired of all his crap, but she continues to put with it. I always thought she was an intelligient girl, but lately I'm beginning to believe she is just stupid. She does not listen to me or her father. Her friends do not like him. I believe he is a manipulator and tries to control every thing. He will not talk to us except to say hi and bye. He speaks so low that only she can hear when they are in a room with us. He puts on this big front of what a great guy he is, but we see him for the turd that he is and I'm ready for her to dump him. We were fighting so much over him during the summer that is was absolutely horrible. He ended up giving her an engagement ring. I pray constantly that she will wise up and see the light soon. She will be miserable if she marries him. She is never at home and yet complains that we don't love her. I think the jerk is trying to alienate her from us. I have cried and cried over this more times than you can imagine. I feel like I have lost my daughter. She is distant with us and does not seem like my daughter anymore. At times, the weight of all of this crap is almost more than I can bear. I try not to say anything negative about him to her anymore cause all it does is cause fights, but it sure is hard to be nice and pleasant to someone when you want to pinch their head off.