my daughter is really stuck on this total loser. She is 18 in college and doing very well..except for her need to be with this jerk. when she was 16- they met online and he was 20. She would wait until I fell asleep and then sneak out of the house and stay at his apartment. I caught her one day by accident. I mean - I never had any issues with her before and trusted her totally. i broke them up and all stayed quiet for awhile. At 17 I gave her a used car and things were fine. Within a few months she was sneaking back to this jerks house ( he had a girlfriend this entire time) AND i took the car away for awhile. This time I got his parents involved and let them know that he was dealing with a minor here. They owned the house he was living in and didnt want any trouble with m e- so they ended it on their end too. The last time this happened - I told her very clearly that I would take the car away permanently if he had to be a prt of her life.
Flash forward a year - this jerk is broken up with his girlfriend - and who does he go bothering again? My daughter of course. She is now away at college - only an hour away from home and comes home weekends to work here. ell I know he;s going up this weekend to visit her over night.l
When she comes home my dilemma is - do i take the car away like I said i would = or let this roteen relationship hopefully die out? He's really a lousry person.............