He Took It Too FarI met this guy online and we had talked for quite some time before we decided we were going to have a long distance relationship. Things got sexual pretty quickly and we were exchanging pictures and sexy text messages. Eventually I admitted to him that I was into BDSM and he wanted to try some things so I let him be my 'master'.
Things went well for a while and somewhere along the line they turned sour to the point where I was actually afraid of him, too afraid to tell him I didn't want to be in the relationship anymore. Even though I knew he couldn't actually physically hurt me, the roleplays and phone sex we would had would often be forced and would become violent in nature.
Eventually I got the courage to call things off and have been happy with my current boyfriend ever since. I did recently contact my ex under the conditions that I would only ask things to get some closure on the subject of our relationship and that I would show my current boyfriend all the texts as proof that nothing other than that was going on.
Since then I haven't spoken to or thought about my ex and I'm really glad I was able to put all that **** behind me.
AdorableCaterpillar 18-21, F 1 May 28, 2012