We dated for years. I thought he was everything I wanted and more. I experienced everything with him. And it was great. Then when a year hit, stuff started to go down hill, he started getting violent, and didn't care if he hurt me. I told him I thought I might be pregnant, you know what he did? He threw me down a flight of stairs because he said me having his kid would ruin his life. But I was dumb, I stayed. He then talked my mom into loaning him $3500. Even though we weren't good, I was staying so my mom would get her money back. One night, he was looking through my phone. Realized I had been talking to some of my guy friends a couple days prior. And he exploded!! Broke my bed, broke my play station, broke his xbox. And then punched me in the back of the head. I was DONE! I forced him to leave my home. I told him it was done. He told me that he'd been cheating on me for months and was expecting a child from someone else. I slammed the door in his face. He showed up the next day with a diamond ring. He put it on my finger and walked out. I later went to his mothers house, where he was staying, and put it in the garbage disposal. I was seeing red. It was finally over. I went home, threw his tv down a flight of stairs, then threw it in my front yard. Took all of his belongings and threw them out. I finally felt happy. He is a terrible person.
Kaytee120 Kaytee120
22-25, F
3 Responses Aug 22, 2014

You deserve a lot of credit for getting out, and more for finding someone who treats you like gold...you seem like a strong/determined/resilient young woman! :-)

Isn't that great that they can do and say the most hurtful things but still try to put a ring on your finger . It makes NO SENSE. I am so proud of you for your strength cus I can imagine how hard that must've been . I go pregnant too and when I told him my ex shrugged . Never texted me during the abortion, never paid me back, never asked how I was feeling

Gosh I'm so sorry. I ended up not being pregnant thank god. But he still hurt me. I finally found someone I want to spend the rest of my life with. He's my everything.

We will be happy and they will still be miserable forever

That's so true! All I'm saying is, If America ever had a purge. He would be my target! Lol

christ almighty he sounds like a real scumbag. hopefully karma will come back and bite him in the *** tenfold. no-one should have to go through what you did, you deserve a hell of a lot better

Thank you! I have worlds better! I have grown so strong and now I'm getting married!

congratulations :)

Thank you so much! I'm beyond happy!