Betrayed And Replaced!

This was my secound marriage. So I was determined to make it work. For 27 years I took his abuse. In the begining it was pretty physical. When he was finally arested for beating me up. The physical turned to mostly mental. Just when I thought things were really turning around. He decided to blow it all up another way. He started an affair with a woman he met at work. This was the last straw for me. after 6 months of hell. I decided divorce was the only way out. And before the divorce papers were dry. he was married again. almost 3 years later. I still hate him and don't know how to get over it. we spent over 1/2 our lives together. Only good thing is the woman he married is a real dog. :)
misd7 misd7
51-55, F
2 Responses May 19, 2012

Its okay to feel bitter and angry, you spent 27 years trying to make it work, but you need to look at this as a blessing and lesson, Blessing because your out of this situation, and lesson being... now you know what you wont tolerate .....your still young and deserve everything your little heart desires...and never ever loose yourself for another again! Set the world on fire my darling.................

its good to know what he wants beacause the relations are not made by one person it must have the another person also with knowing that what are our responsibilities towards relations but try to think again whats going on. with care from god