Great The Holidays Again!!! Cant Enjoy Them, There Is A Loser Involved...

I have had three children with my exhusband, he has not seen them in the last 7 months. The kids told him they dont want to see him, due to alot of problems he has caused them. So he had said that he didnt want to upset them so he wouldnt pick them up for visitation. Mostly due to the fact that he has a new girlfriend and didnt want the kids interference in his new life. Not to mention all the lies he tells and that the kids would sell him out. Especially in the begining of our divorce he told the children he was dying of stage 4 cancer and had only months left to live and that he would be dead by Christmas to guilt the children into seeing him. Then miraculously he was fine never died and and was perfectly healthy again when he got a girlfriend, the kids asked him about dying he told them he took some medicine and now he is better.....no chem no radiation...just cured....wow call the pope. ITS a Miracle!!! then the phone calls from the kids crying Dad is yelling at us we want to come home....and in the background there is the jerk, Get off the F'in phone as they are crying he grabs the phone and hangs up....Now luckily the kids have been spared for the last 7 months then in comes the email I will be taking the kids for Christmas....great ruin there xmas they havent had to deal with you for months but now you need to sweep in and ruin Christmas....what a great guy....

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1 Response Nov 27, 2012

Sounds like a real winner, sorry that your dealing with such a *******, the kids should not have to see him if they don't want to, yes it dosent always work that way but do you have a custody agreement, my divorce specifics everything alternating years for the holidays ect. I hope you have a good attorney belive me it's worth it. Take care and try to have a good holiday the best you can.