I am so thankful I found this forum to vent. I've spent the entire day communicating with my ex husband and his wife about expenses for my 14 year-old son that has autism and 10 year-old daughter. He left when they were 7 and 3! They trotted off and bought a huge $550,000 home! They do absolutely nothing with the kids when they have them on their every other weekend stint. I am left in financial ruins and do 99.9% of the parenting. When I try to talk to them about the situation, they talk to me like Data from Star Trek. Actually, I think the telephone pole outside displays more caring than they do. I honestly don't know how they can live they way they do and sleep at night. I have got to find a way to cope with this or I am going to climb in a hole and die. I want to tell everyone out there reading this going through the same situation that I really feel for you. The injustice is tremendous!