Suffocated and Disrespected. I Hate Them!

Most people think it's just a young adult phase to hate your parents or family, but with me, it's not. I am 19 years old, and my family has not sacrificed much for me. They have put 0 dollars back for collage for now I am struggling to get money for it, and am having to take out loans, which is are bad! They do not respect me whatsoever, they have to know every move I make & every breath I take. Im trying to move out soon, but it just seems impossible with the situation I am in..


I have a 23 year old brother who still lives at home[his 17 year old girlfriend lives with us too], and he has NO job and they bow to down his every ******* wish. They give him money when he needs it, clothe him, feed him, do basically EVERYTHING for him. I on the other hand, HAVE A JOB, but they still ***** at me saying I need to find a better job so my mom can quit her 2nd job. ARE THEY ******* SERIOUS? I think they forgot about my JOBLESS brother!! Aleast I have a job. Jesus christ! Now I need a better one?!?!?! GRRRR!!


They ***** and moan about everything and anything. My mom gossips about everything and anything. She lives off of it..what a terrible life that must be!! She wants to know every move I make. I can't leave the front door without her asking where I am going and why. It's sad. I feel like I have ZERO privacy. Ugh..


I can't say I hate my father, he is probably the only one I can actually say I like. I just dont know how he puts up with my mother and my brother. I just want to scream!!

sugarmagnolia1 sugarmagnolia1
1 Response Apr 13, 2009

Your brother needs to help with finances. No one should have to work two jobs just to make ends meet. As for your Mom always wanting to know where you are and what you're doing...well, she's a mom and when they care, that's what they do. College is a huge expense and I don't know how people manage. I wish you luck hun. Hope things improve for you soon.